I had an idea where we who love classy/old money stuff but can't afford it could have classy nights/events and combine it with kink and openness afterwards. A whole night of sensuality. And no ultra-rich assholes allowed. I call it "The Vagabond Society".
We could pool money over time and use it to buy experiences. Plus we could have a more clandestine thing a secret handshake or initiation ceremony. Add to the exclusivity. (And if there's anything a rich person hates, it's not being part of something exclusive).