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Sexual Confessions 💋 17h
i'm scared to lose my v card cause i feel like it's gonna hurt sm😭🙄
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Anonymous 17h

usually does hurt for girls, it’s like a new experience where your body is not used to something so the first time can be highly uncomfortable but then everytime after that should be better since your body knows what to expect now and knows the feeling well

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Anonymous 17h

🤤

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Anonymous 17h

I love teaching

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Anonymous 17h

Could hurt and could be a lot of blood

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Anonymous 15h

It’s a good kind of hurt, some like dicks big enough to make it hurt

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Anonymous 15h

Me too😭😭

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Anonymous 7h

Best way I can describe it is that I literally felt my skin ripping. Comparable to having your ears stretched. Probably user error. Needed more lube, and to actually be turned on. the guy sorta forced me down on it. Definitely bled a bit. And was very sore. But after it went in the pain faded and we kept having sex. The guy was honestly not certified to be taking v cards fr. Find someone your body feels safe with and is willing to go slow. That’s what I wished I did.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 6h

“sorta forced me down on it” would be enough for me to knock his lights out for you, im not a girl but force should never be used in a sentence when talking about intimacy like ever

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6h

Yeah I mean it wasn’t against my will. I wanted to lose my virginity. But it was so tight I couldn’t do anything myself about it. Was he the right person to do it? Probably not. I do wish it was someone else sometimes but he wasn’t a rapist or anything just lowkey a shy fuck boy. Idk we didn’t have much chemistry 🤷‍♀️ I don’t really regret it tho. It still felt special in its own way.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 6h

i mean yeah but i guess i can’t really talk ive never taken anyone’s actual “v card” just some comments that ive gotten but thats besides the point but yeah he most likely wanted it fast when it should be like a very VERY slow pace like its not a go fast and get it over with kind of thing its a treasure that you slowly open because if you go too fast you will actually rip, girl tried to go too fast on me and started ripping like i literally had to stop her like you’re going to hurt yourself

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6h

Yeah if I recall correctly it was his first time taking a v card. TBH I think he just wanted that badge. He was wayyy older than me. And it definitely should be slow. I ripped, and bled the night into the next day. Not heavy but it was bleeding. And it hurt to sit. For several days.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 6h

yeah sounds about right, you go too fast and you will rip, like the first time is always going to hurt like that’s just a given but point is to make it hurt minimally and also NOT RIP, like i have to yell at guys all the time like if you’re ripping her then you have the patience of a 4 year old like she should NEVER be ripping you bunch of dumb fucks

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