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I’m an incoming freshman. I don’t know how to start doing hookups or like get into the hookup scene so to speak. The only problem is that I’m a virgin, I’ve only ever kissed one guy before and I’ve never done anything sexual with a guy OR girl. HELP!
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Anonymous 6w

I don’t know if “starting hookups” is the way you want to go about it. My advice is go to a sex ed talk/group on campus, learning about the common STI’s around, and learn about contraceptives. If your school has a health clinic you should be able to get a birth control that hopefully fits your lifestyle. BUT STILL USE CONDOMS And avoid telling guys you’re a virgin, they might look at you as something to “conquer”

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Anonymous 6w

I say find a friend you’re comfortable with and fuck them. Then go to hookups.

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Anonymous 5w

Hey first look up the statistics on college students and stds. Thats the first thing. Then move on to how you can protect yourself

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

Sex can be super stress free and enjoyable if done safely and with someone you trust (doesn’t have to be a boyfriend) Also for your first time I’m personally against a hookup. If you have a bad first experience it may or may not cause you to have a negative outlook on sex and men. DM for any other questions :)

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

Hookups are pretty easy afterwards.

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