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i cheated on my boyfriend and i don’t know what to do. i am a horrible person and i don’t even know why i did it.
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Anonymous 6w

people cheat all the time queen just please make sure to tell him and don’t hide it, im not sure why you did it either, maybe a lack of feeling love or attention, wanting something new or deep down maybe he isn’t what you want, millions of people cheat everyday and feel no remorse for it, don’t beat yourself up about it maybe talk to a friend and you get to the bottom of why but please do tell him, it’s worse than keeping it a secret

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Anonymous 6w

giving trashy slut not serving cunt! good luck

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Anonymous 6w

idk ur sorry don’t do it again and don’t tell what he doesn’t know won’t hurt him

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Anonymous 6w

Yes you are a horrible person hope that helps

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

that’s disgusting if she’s sorry she should tell him that she is

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

i don’t think i’m going to tell him because it was just a kiss and it helped me realize what i’m missing in my own relationship that made me go wayward.. i think telling him would be a mistake in this scenario

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

i mean if you’re gonna stay with him then tell him but if you’re gonna leave him then what’s the point

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

in my mind it would be the opposite, though, no?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

ur disgusting

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

says the one telling somebody to not tell their partner they cheated 😭 nigga needs to get their brain straight

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

if you’re gonna continue to stay with somebody you shouldn’t hide shit because relationships are built on trust and truthfulness so if you don’t have truthfulness then you don’t have a good relationship

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

yall are taking yikyak wayyy to serious calm tf down

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

nigga u telling somebody to hide the fact they cheated im not taking anything serious you’re just stupid and a gross persons

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

hoe not taking it serious while u arguing in the comments

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

not even arguing btw just stating facts

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

i only kissed him, though. we didn’t fuck, and i’m not going to let it go any further so i don’t see the point in telling him

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

it’s still cheating whether you had sex or not and not telling your partner would be the wrong thing to do because you are betraying his trust in you and you are lying to him

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

the relationship will be based on lies if you do not tell him

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

lowkey no one gaf this is serve cunt or die not Dr Phil she can tell him if she wants we all got free will

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

no shit but she’s coming in here talking about it and im free to give my opinion and mind you im a couples therapist, her relationship will turn to shit by the way if she isn’t honest the relationship is baseless, but yes at the end of th day she is free to do as she pleases but this thought and the feelings of being a bad person will never leave her if she continues to lie and betray him, she will only feel worse

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

imagining my therapist trolling teenagers on yikyak

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

a lot of us to on here and twitter we can have fun too

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

i’m not like other people tho. i’m like dr. HOUSE. a bit morally gray. i don’t think the relationship is baseless. u should know as someone in psychology that if you deny yourself of a desire or impulse, that in general that neural pathway will deactivate and you will no longer have that desire. compared to the rest of our almost year-long relationship, those two instances of cheating are an easily explainable blip.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

oh shit that’s awesome

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

bc that is cheating hello

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Cheating, even if it happens ‘only twice,’ isn’t a small blip it’s a breach of trust that changes the foundation of a relationship. Trust isn’t about statistics, it’s about consistency and safety. If that’s broken, it has to be addressed honestly, not minimized.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

You are not a good partner, you are lying to your boyfriend and completely betraying him an your relationship is baseless and made of nothing, you are deceiving him

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

Yo this mean asf can we calm down. It was def a mistake and this wouldn’t be a post if she didn’t feel bad enough already

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 6w

slut shaming isn’t cunt either, ugly ❤️

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