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i initiate plans, we hang out, all goes well, & they almost never talk to me again. Idk what’s harder, making friends in college or keeping them
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Anonymous 16w

they’re not as funny as u babe dw

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Anonymous 16w

Just bc you thought everything went well doesn't mean they thought so

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Anonymous 16w

going out with a gurl ive never been out with before and this is making me more nervous.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 16w

Well of course. I’m pretty weary of what I say or do though, especially since I have experience with rude friends in the past or ones that lack common courtesy sense. So I doubt it’s that. Sometimes I think I just need to find more spaces with ppl like me.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 16w

I go to a predominantly white institution, which ofc isn’t an issue to me at all. Everyone’s super nice but I found that those who do tend to stick around me here are also black.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16w

Yes, but sometimes it's not just courtesy, it could also be that the other person just felt your personalities didn't click. It doesn't always mean you necessarily did something wrong

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 16w

I can agree with that. I do find it to be weird that it’s pretty much every time.

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