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My ex (first love) and I broke up 4 months ago; he got a gf soon after. Now a TikTok account—clearly him—views me daily and posts “I miss you” content. I’m healing but anxious, tempted to reach out, and unsure whether to tell his gf.
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Anonymous 3d

Trust me: you both need to learn to be happy by yourselves first.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

so what do i do?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

Say nothing for now and move on. That’s his nonsense to deal with and his own answers to find. If you feel an errant responsibility to point out any infidelity, use your own judgement. But don’t look for reasons to engage with them.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

Hang ups suck. Breakups suck. My advice isn’t the only advice out there and you probably feel a lot of conflicting emotions on how to proceed. The healing is a ‘you’ process. Not his or his girlfriend.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

i ended up blocking it, cause playing games with my head isn’t okay

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