
It has kept me safer than opening up to men. I am WAY on guard and have been raped less, harassed less, disrespected less than when I opened up friendships to men. MUCH less. If you’re a guy that’s fine, but you also need to acknowledge the horrible damaging destructive things men as a whole do and condone in each other.
unfortunately this is true, the “hate all men” is not helpful to us or the men. if you don’t like certain people, sure great, but being hateful towards a mass group is a) not going to change anything b) make no one feel better c) lead to harm on both sides d) create unnecessary divide (this ab a dude saying I hate women, how does that make you feel? is it helpful?)