Anonymous #1 3w

I’m glad you think so 🥰

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Anonymous #2 3w

Does it seem like I support the patriarchy based off my post?🤨

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Anonymous OP 3w

bc you’re ragebaiting with a cultural feminist ass post and expect people to congratulate you for being woke when you’re not 💀

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Anonymous #3 3w

me when i’m a pick me who can’t take a joke or is a man here

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Anonymous #2 3w

this is like the most anti-patriarchy post ever like 😭

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Anonymous OP 3w

Yes, the patriarchy doesn’t just expect women to be subservient to men. It also expects men to be aloof, lone wolves who don’t need the support of others. This can lead men to lash out and hurt themselves and others when they’ve done what society expects them to do but still feel empty and hurt inside. The feminist movement, of which I’m a part of, doesn’t seek to uplift women by degrading men but identify how our gendered expectations hurts people and fix it.

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Anonymous #2 3w

I want to be clear, I’m not excusing men for their actions when they hurt others, they should seek professional help when they have those emotions. However, their actions were made more likely by the expectations of the patriarchy.

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Anonymous #2 3w

And who set these systems up? Men.

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Anonymous #8 3w

Literally the only men who are offended are the ones this is directed to and they keep commenting 🤣

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Anonymous OP 3w

you’re so disgustingly ignorant it’s not even funny. if you want to be a feminist, educate yourself with more than TikTok reels and YikYak discourse. pick up a book or read an article about feminism instead of whatever tf this is. don’t pretend to be a feminist. you give us a bad name.

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Anonymous #5 3w

There is a general stigma of men going to therapy

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Anonymous OP 3w

ik it’s so funny like they are outting themselves left and right

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Anonymous #1 3w

True but there’s also a general stigma around men beating and raping women yet some of them still do

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Anonymous #5 3w

Key word in that sentence: SOME. Yeah, some mean are comfortable going to therapy, doesn’t mean they all are or will be

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Anonymous #9 3w

It’s alright. I always have a fully charged back up 🥰✨

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Anonymous OP 3w

Holy femcel, touch grass

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Anonymous #6 3w

Nope. Men(mainly in power) set up and uphold the systems that are actively dragging them down and that’s fact. You don’t have to like it, but it’s true. And I have a degree in gender studies but PLEASE tell me how much I don’t know about feminism 🥰

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Anonymous OP 3w

How’s that barista job going 😂

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Anonymous #9 3w

If you’re offended, then you’re EXACTLY the type of man this post was made for. Non problematic men know it’s not about them and we LOVE those men 🥰

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Anonymous OP 3w

lol, you’re funny when you’re mad 🥰

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Anonymous #9 3w

Furthest thing from mad right now sweety. Thank you for the endless hours of pure entertainment as I go about my day. Some people just can’t scroll when they don’t like something😍

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Anonymous OP 3w

I’m just bored, this is way more fun than scrolling

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Anonymous #1 3w

they have to step out of their comfort zone to be less lonely with their own problems. that is up to them. everyone needs therapy, but unfortunately some people have bad experiences which leads to them not returning, and some people puss out and never go in the first place. therapy also overly relies on cbt (haha), which does not work for everyone.

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Anonymous #11 3w

I agree. They should be able to express their emotions, go to therapy, be vulnerable, be “feminine”, and not get shit for it and I feel bad they get picked on and called weak for it because those are strong men.

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Anonymous OP 3w

You give women a bad name.

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Anonymous #11 3w

Yeah, therapy is very hard for someone who isn’t familiar with it a lot.

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Anonymous #11 3w

So many are lonely because women are tired of the abuse they endure and the rights men in power are trying to strip so they would rather not be with a man than risk finding a man who might hurt them. I find myself trusting very few men because they end up showing their true colors and I don’t want to be hurt or worse. Thank goodness I know some good ones but god damn. It’s all just so sad.

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Anonymous #9 3w

I can almost guarantee you do absolutely nothing to try and stop violence against women and actually listen to them when they tell men why they are SCARED of them. We are scared of you and we don’t want to be hurt. We are tired of being raped, beaten, ruled over, and stripped of rights. And I’m speaking about women around the world, not just in the US.

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Anonymous OP 3w

Holy paragraph 🥱💤

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Anonymous #9 3w

Just say you’re bad at reading and move on. You don’t care about violence against women(and men for that matter). You’re definitely the type of man women should stay away from. This is why yall are lonely and we don’t want you. Stay lonely for all we care. If you don’t care about us then we definitely don’t care about you.😘

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Anonymous #12 3w

Notice how you’re getting downvoted. I bet these butt hurt men are rapists as well. And then they wonder why they’re “lonely” and why women don’t seem to care anymore. What goes around comes around.

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Anonymous #7 3w

Why is it so hard for men not to rape women?

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Anonymous OP 3w

pray tell how being a dick online is helping anyone? maybe you should’ve payed more attention in class rather than being chronically online…

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Anonymous #6 3w

Let me help you: Do you know what community this post was made in? No? Well you should look. Hope this helps! 🥰

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Anonymous OP 3w

it didn't because you aren't remotely serving cunt with your fake ass feminism. again, educate yourself before acting high and mighty about your degree when you clearly never internalized your lessons. hope this helps 🫶

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After the year we’ve had in this country after the election, I am so over giving a fuck what anyone thinks about my stance. People are being caged and deported like there’s no tomorrow, women’s rights are slowly being stripped, lgbtq people’s rights are slowly being stripped etc, and whos at the forefront of why it’s all happening? Men. And then they double down so I’ll scream louder if it makes them cry harder. (And yes I KNOW not all men, but it’s enough)

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Anonymous OP 3w

look. I understand the need for coping mechanisms right now. life fucking sucks with our current government, and our future is bleak. I’m asking you to not talk about feminism while ragebaiting men online. cope however you want, but don’t let others associate feminism with ragebait.

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Anonymous #6 3w

Listen, I completely understand. I do. But I think you might not realize that I did not bring up feminism until someone else mentioned it. And if they want to attack what I know about feminism, I’m going to defend my stance by talking about feminism if that’s what’s needed.

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Anonymous OP 3w

Saying men rape women isn’t accurate there’s a whole word made up for someone who rapes and it’s called a rapist it is a gender neutral word please use it in the future cause women raping men happens and has happened to my loved ones so just please be more thoughtful.

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Anonymous OP 3w

also Idk why you would ask me that i’m not a rapist or a psychologist for that matter

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Anonymous #7 3w

That’s hilarious bud! Over 90% of sexual assaulters are MEN. 90 to 95% of violent crime on Earth is committed by… MEN. Yall so dense it’s actually unbelievably unbearable at this point.

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Anonymous OP 3w

Dude who are you arguing with? I don’t doubt your statistics so what’s your point exactly? This is the stuff i’m talking about there’s no need to be rude or intentionally vague to cause conflict or get upvotes just be kind and more precise when you communicate your thoughts and there wouldn’t be any confusion.

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Anonymous #7 3w

Saying men rape women obviously is a blanket statement but IS accurate because look at those god awful statistics. Ofc women do too and it’s equally unacceptable but it’s minuscule and unequal in comparison. We don’t feel safe around you guys even if you’re cool because of our lived experiences and kindness hasn’t worked.

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Anonymous #7 3w

It’s like yall don’t understand that we are literally screaming to be left alone and treated fairly. It wasn’t kindness that got women their right to vote and it won’t be through kindness that we get men to stop assaulting others(regardless of gender).

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Anonymous OP 3w

it really is. if i may connect it to my own experience, ive sat and watched my older sister, who has level 2 autism and grew up boy-obsessed and far too trusting of men, bc the women she grew up with at school always bullied her, whereas men would compliment her, but of course the compliments were to get access to her. she has gotten with, no joke, hundreds of men, and not a single one has ended up not being a total sex-driven manipulative shitbag. i know good men exist out there, and (1/2(?))

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Anonymous OP 3w

we attract people who see us how we see ourselves, and she does have an awful awful self esteem, but watching her has really heightened my distrust and dislike of most straighf guys her age (2/2). good men do exist but there is a loud aand llarge portion who are not, and it is annuoingly hard to find the good ones

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Anonymous OP 3w

It is a blanket statement that implicates innocent people, it’s rude cause people are more than their gender, let’s just say that statistics showed that majority of women shoplift as compared to men i still wouldn’t call women thieves and i wouldn’t clutch my jewelry when one walked by because the minority doesn’t define the majority, yes the majority of rapists could be men but that doesn’t make the majority of men rapists.

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Anonymous #11 3w

It’s truly so hard and I hate it because I want to have men in my life, and I want to love having them around, but pretty much the only ones who have not turned out to be complete asses are lgbtq ones so far in my experience. The others I can’t even trust because some of the “nicest” people are hiding behind the darkest secrets. I found out my grade school crush raped a girl and that was such a blow. He seemed so nice…

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Anonymous #7 3w

The problem with that is, while I agree it can lump in innocent people, there are far too many men creating these crimes to go unnoticed. Yes I will be crossing the street at night if I’m alone and see a group of men coming towards me. Some of you are great but 1 in 3 women get assaulted in their life. It’s high for guys too but those are still crimes mainly by men.

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Anonymous OP 3w

You won’t achieve your goal by implicating normal men with blanket statements

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Anonymous #7 3w

And someone could say “what about people being scared of black people because they create 50% of the crime?”, but that’s a highly inaccurate and disproven statistic. The one about men is not. So again, it just does not compare. Bad men have squandered it completely for good men because we can’t know who to trust.

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Anonymous #7 3w

Or how about this: good men start acknowledging and empathizing how tired we are having to deal with all this and keep being good regardless of what’s said and actually be a part of the solution? It’s like we have to beg y’all for that too.

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Anonymous OP 3w

I don’t deny that there’s too many men doing it more than 0 people doing it is too much, all i’m saying is what is the point of villainizing innocent men that would otherwise have been on your side if you hadn’t called them names it makes no sense and i mean more you as a person but the feminist movement as whole is given a bad rap because of blanket statements like this and it could all be prevented by just clarifying the type of man you’re referring to.

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Anonymous OP 3w

I literally did below and got flamed for it, by you. I said I’m someone who identifies how our expectations of gender hurt us and am trying to fix it and you just said my forefathers built a broken system. I am not my forefathers and I l know the system is broken and am working to try to fix it.

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Anonymous OP 3w

No you’ve given up on having faith in others, it’s tragic but that doesn’t mean the majority is excepted to take responsibility for the actions of the few. statistics in general are just inaccurate they don’t tell the whole truth, you could be right or it could be that women rape more than men no one would ever know because reporting your rape is extremely stigmatized already but it’s even more stigmatized for men, it’s just better to judge people by their character and not superficial stuff

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Anonymous OP 3w

I agree with you but do you truly believe that to be simpler than adding a few words to your original statement? It costs you nothing to add the word bad in front of men when referring specifically to bad men

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Anonymous OP 3w

Just cracked 🥳. Give me 5 OP 🙌

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Anonymous OP 3w

More like cums around 😂

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Anonymous #2 3w

Great! Then this post is NOT for you and you can ignore it. I’ll say this for the second time for you and 7 since I said it to someone else: this community is literally called “serve cunt or die”. I did it on purpose and ofc so many people got angry but so be it. If yall couldn’t read between the lines, idk what to tell you. It’s not directed at you.

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Anonymous OP 3w

We’re here to serve dick 🍆

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Anonymous #7 3w

I have given up because things are going backwards fast and most of us can’t change much aside from maybe what’s going on in our immediate lives. I’m not a lawmaker. We try, we fail. We make progress, it gets taken away. I legit do not have the energy anymore to fight like I used to. It’s killing me slowly. I only want everyone to have a fair chance at life.

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Anonymous OP 3w

Law student here btw, I can’t wait to make laws

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Anonymous #9 3w

You do that bro! You do that! 🥰

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Anonymous OP 3w

I appreciate that OP and apologize for my earlier statements. The world needs more honey and less vinegar.

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Anonymous #9 3w

Honestly I do wish you well in that. I don’t hate men even though I’m sure that’s what everyone thinks… I’m just done having to fight for basic freedoms and autonomy and it feels like society as a whole is regressing. We have much bigger issues we could be solving in the world.

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