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Real talk girlies: If you can’t maintain a friendship, it may not be the time to start dating
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Anonymous 1w

I think it is more nuanced that that, I lost a lot of friendships after a recent development in my chronic illness made me unable to go out and do things. I didn’t break up with my partner because of this though, they actually help me through it.

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Anonymous 1w

What if we started out as friends and are now trying to see if we can be something more 😏

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Anonymous 1w

can always maintain a relationship but friends always leave they’re like little game pieces lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

There’s no difference in maintaining a relationship and friendship imo tho like they both require effort and in the same way u describe them to be able to leave like game pieces someone ur dating can to.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

yeah doesn’t everyone think like that lmao if something happens you gotta be able to move on and not mope around

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

What you’re saying does make a sense, but this post is generally talking about emotional availability which doesn’t seem like the cause of your inability to maintain or start friendships

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

My emotional availability is pretty low just from general exhaustion lol but yeah not trying to bean soup ya

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