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and YES i’m in love with my straight best friend who goes to uni in another state and YES she doesn’t like me back and YES it’s tearing me apart
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Anonymous 1w

But just a little bit because after getting with my boyfriend who treats me like the most precious thing in the world I feel full of love ❤️

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Anonymous 1w

this is my best advice: move on, as a straight girl and my bff was in love with me, it made the friendship awful and uncomfortable and ultimately made the friendship end. - it’s best to make new friends, maybe keep in touch to ask how they are but besides that, drop it!

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Anonymous 1w

this is me bro

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Anonymous 1w

🫂

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Anonymous 1w

I’ve gone through the same thing as the one in love with their best friend before she moved across the country. If you need to say something do it but treat yourself with kindness. you need to remember you’re not a bad person for expressing the genuine feelings you have for someone you love in a respectful manner. Even if you’re shunned which I know feels like a death sentence. Me personally I will never regret doing it because I did love her but it does still feel numb even after years.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

like exactly me

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

tryna to follow #2s advice tho bc id much be friends with her than nothing at all 💔

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

as long as you don’t make it very known and you learn to control the feelings, it should still all be good! the girl that was in love with me tried to get with me and thought the feeing was “mutual” - as i had a bf!

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