
I dont know what is and i dont care Here’s something you might not understand: if you think Im queer, whatever. I actually dont give a fuck. You can call me “queer” all you want. All I’m saying is that I *personally* do not identify as such. Let me give you an example: If a woman wears “men’s clothes,” we don’t call that “cross dressing” but we do (for some stupid reason) when men wear “women’s” stuff. That is stupid.
I think some people like to gatekeep so they take it personally if someone isn’t identifying the way that they think they should… or maybe they just think that it’s “impossible” for a straight guy to do this? I think that’s even worse. Basically my thinking is that women can wear men’s stuff and we don’t call it “cross dressing” etc, right? So why shouldn’t I be able to wear/do stuff that’s “feminine”? I agree with you.