Anonymous #1 10w

this is amazing advice ty

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he would constantly talk about his exes with me so i imagine she knows. he's super manipulative and i could see myself just coming off as a crazy ex gf. i couldn't even comprehend what he did to me until after we broke up

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I think if she hears about all these ex’s that maybe there’s a pattern, if she’s curious she’ll reach out but it’s hard to say. I think if it’s her own will she would be more understanding and leave sooner, but it might be taken also as “oh she’s real crazy” even though you were just trying to warn her if you were to reach out

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she and my ex go to a different university than i do, so im not friends with any of her friends

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Anonymous #1 10w

As much as this is good advice to not seem crazy or obsessed, it doesn’t go the same way if you’re trying to warn someone that their partner is an abuser and predator. You’re not obligated to, but if it’s something that you feel might be a danger to her as well, you just have to let her know regardless of how she chooses to perceive you after. You’ve done your part.

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Anonymous #4 10w

this man also knows where i live. i also fear he could show up to my house if it goes wrong and she were to tell him about it

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Anonymous OP 10w

Okay yeah, if you truly think that you might be in danger then honestly leave it be

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