Anonymous #1 12h

this is amazing advice ty

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Anonymous #1 10h

I mean, this mainly works if the new gf knows that u are his ex. Also, wouldn’t letting her know ahead of time be better in case he does something before she can reach out?

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Anonymous #2 10h

he would constantly talk about his exes with me so i imagine she knows. he's super manipulative and i could see myself just coming off as a crazy ex gf. i couldn't even comprehend what he did to me until after we broke up

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Anonymous OP 10h

I’m sorry. Is there a way to possibly talk to one of her friends so she can be the one who lets her know. More of a “I heard through the grapevine” then directly letting her know

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Anonymous #2 10h

I think if she hears about all these ex’s that maybe there’s a pattern, if she’s curious she’ll reach out but it’s hard to say. I think if it’s her own will she would be more understanding and leave sooner, but it might be taken also as “oh she’s real crazy” even though you were just trying to warn her if you were to reach out

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Anonymous #2 10h

she and my ex go to a different university than i do, so im not friends with any of her friends

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