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Trying to get sober and needing some reinforcement. Every upvote is a day I don’t drink and every comment is a reason to not drink. Drop both and help me on my journey toward sobriety 🖤🤘
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Anonymous 5w

you can do it baddie you got this

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Anonymous 4w

hi queen be strong you can do it!!

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Anonymous 4w

MORE MONEY!!!!!

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Anonymous 5w

I believe in you! You can do it my love

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Anonymous 4w

I used to be in denial about how much alcohol has been messing up my life. I’ve not drank in like 3 weeks and already everything is falling into place. Alcohol actually reduces your intelligence

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Anonymous 5w

With respect, find an AA meeting for community. Good luck

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Anonymous 4w

Hey! If you ever need a sober friend, reach out, I am here for you, the online groups as well with in person groups will support you in this journey!

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Anonymous 4w

You’re so much stronger and so much a more powerful than a dumbass liquid…you are a queen, you are a diva, you are the moment, and you can do anything you set your beautiful mind to!!!

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Anonymous 4w

babe u so got this, being sober is slay 🫶🏽

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Anonymous 4w

you’ve got this queen, youre so strong

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Anonymous 4w

hey i’m in sobriety too! just over two months. my biggest pusher to get sober was after an activity at rehab where we did a little worksheet where we looked at ourselves as different parts of our life that our drinking hurt (like your relationship with yourself, you as a partner, you with your finances, you as a child or parent, things like that). after looking at how may boxes i checked within each of those categories i was kind of surprised with myself, and kind of scared

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Anonymous 4w

alcohol can be a major cause of bloating and other digestive issues so if you’re a tummy warrior (like me ✊😔) not drinking can help reduce those symptoms!!! keep that streak up girlie you got this

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Anonymous 4w

You can be the person that makes sure your friends get home safe! Now you don’t have to worry about drunk driving accidents 🤍

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Anonymous 5w

So proud of you for taking this step

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Anonymous 4w

and bod will be more tea!!

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Anonymous 4w

taking 450 shots in honor of you today

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Anonymous 4w

YOU GOT THIS BABE!!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

The religion based aspect and making amends with people that you’ve done bad things to (who have done bad things back, ie some of my abusers that led to me abusing substances) didn’t strike a chord with me. It set me back and made me want to drink even more. I’ve tried it but I’m looking into SMART goals. With respect, don’t push your narrative on everyone

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

Thank you diva 👑

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

of course diva

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

I have no narrative. I don’t care about the religion part or the making arms part. I care about the community part because addiction is torturous without community. So, with respect, find a community.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

And if your addiction is not torturous and you don’t need a community, amazing and hope it’s going well for you

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4w

really thinking about all of those things was an eye opener (and pls don’t take this as me saying you need fear to drive you in sobriety- 100% you don’t, but for me i need it to keep going)

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4w

regardless of your reasons, you’re so powerful and brave to be doing this! i hope you have a good support team :) if you need any help with anything im here :) beginning this journey isn’t something you should do alone

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4w

apps like iamsober are helpful for tracking your progress and there are “worksheets” you can do within the app (for free), and each day you pledge to be sober it gives you a little affirmation for the day. super nice app

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 4w

I could tell, I was feeling dumber 😔 does it come back?

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 4w

Thank you so much!! Are they online AA groups or just sober groups? I’m ver interested!

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 4w

Yessss this is a big reason for me!! More money means more piercings and tattoos and toys for my dog 🤘

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Anonymous replying to -> sea_hibiscus67 4w

This is my exact worry! I was in a coma due to another drunk driver’s accident the and a half years ago and I ALWAYS want to make sure nobody has to be in that situation again. Keeping the world safe one non alcoholic drink at a time!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Yes!!! It actually does! And you have more time to dive into your hobbies and things that stimulate you mentally

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 4w

450 Smirnoff blue doubles with pink lemonade powder and some strawberry lemonade Mio shaken over two ice cubes in a glass with some lime juice and a mint spring muddled in the bottom topped off with some ginger beer pls

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

you’re an icon, love u

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