
hey i’m in sobriety too! just over two months. my biggest pusher to get sober was after an activity at rehab where we did a little worksheet where we looked at ourselves as different parts of our life that our drinking hurt (like your relationship with yourself, you as a partner, you with your finances, you as a child or parent, things like that). after looking at how may boxes i checked within each of those categories i was kind of surprised with myself, and kind of scared
The religion based aspect and making amends with people that you’ve done bad things to (who have done bad things back, ie some of my abusers that led to me abusing substances) didn’t strike a chord with me. It set me back and made me want to drink even more. I’ve tried it but I’m looking into SMART goals. With respect, don’t push your narrative on everyone