Yall worried abt bridesmaids, I can’t find the groom

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College is teaching me I may not have a wedding at all

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me too bc I did meet my fiance in college but he has so many friends and I have like 1 or 2 people to ask to be bridesmaids lmao

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Why is this so relatable?? 😭 I was in a big friend group freshman year of college but near the end of college I had a massive falling out with my 2 close friends (all i can say is don’t become roommates with your friends). And my fiancé (very soon to be husband) has like 100 friends (I’m not exaggerating). Since I don’t have anyone to be my bridesmaids/ maid of honor he agreed he wouldn’t have any groomsmen/ best man. So we’re just going to have a super simple wedding.

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As a 28year old in school, it’s okay these girls are mean to one another. And most of the friend groups you see in school break up after graduation.

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Weddings are so expensive, you don’t want a big one anyway. You could take that money and get put it towards the honeymoon or housing. My wedding was $140 and I couldn’t be happier with that decision

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before the comments I read this as woke-ification in which you realized you don’t want a big wedding lol

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All ik is who I’m not inviting bruh

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I genuinely am graduating with one friend, I was hoping for a friend group man :(

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get out there gf join clubs or maybe even consider rushing! You will find your bridesmaids you just need to surround yourself with the right people💖

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The culture of real deep friendships is lost to the past now. Just focus on getting paid.

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Best thing to do join a club and you can join any and meet ppl till you find the right ones

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I literally have one friend 🥲 and that one friend has so many other friends that I’m just “one of her friends”. I’m so tired of this

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i feel like i’ve always been a floater friend and college has not changed that one bit it honestly sucks constantly reaching out to people and never getting reached out to

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no literally they said it would be better than high school but it’s just the same old shit

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i’m the opposite, i’ve met so many friends but still have no man 🥀

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this is a good reminder that i should elope

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I had a couple friends last semester but now my roomate goes and hangs out with them without inviting me or saying where she’s going. And like she obviously doesn’t have to tell me but the few times she talks to me shes complaining about someone so WHOS to say she didn’t complain about me to our shared friends and now they don’t want to hang out with me anymore. I don’t even need my entire hand to count how many friends I have here.

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as someone getting married this year i feel you i got like 5 friends lmao

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idek who to INVITE to my wedding

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Can I come

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Girl same I wanna elope

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I need a groom first

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Very real I have no friends here

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Better than me. Turns out, I ain’t havin a wedding at all

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Only the day 1s

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girl i got the bridesmaids where TF IS THE GROOM 🗣️

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That’s my believe too

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