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I’m sorry but it IS all men until the men who don’t harass me actually fucking protect me from the ones who do. don’t call yourself a good man or a protector if you do jackshit when a girl is getting harassed right fucking next to you.
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Anonymous 5w

not harassing and not assaulting women is the bare minimum and it pisses me off that a lot of guys think they’re good people just because they don’t do that. if you’re an active bystander when someone is getting hurt, you’re the problem. I have NEVER once seen a man in public try to defend or protect me from another man who was harassing me.

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Anonymous 5w

It is all women until I stop getting told “you probably liked it” when I got sexually assaulted Your logic btw

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

I will never understand the perspective of I don’t rape therefore I’m a good person. THATS THE STARTING POINT WHY IS THIS SO HARD TO UNDERSTAND

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Anonymous replying to -> birthcontrol 5w

I genuinely don’t understand what would possess someone to just stand by when someone else is being hurt. If ANYONE, regardless of gender, is being harassed in front of me I’m going to do whatever I can to stop it because I have feelings and seeing other people get hurt also hurts me emotionally cause I’m not, you know, psychologically insane. I actually have been assaulted before, and have been told by self proclaimed good men that I probably liked it. Idk what you’re trying to achieve here.

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Anonymous replying to -> birthcontrol 5w

The only people I've witnessed saying "you probably liked it" to male survivors are other men. I'm sorry you've gone through that. No one deserves to be forced to do anything they don't want to do.

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