
well i think you shouldnt go out and make a bunch of opposite sex friends when ur dating someone but like im not gonna force you to cut off all ur friends if ur dating me even if i date a guy with female friends (im bi and wlw is a bit different) bc thats toxic imo. my love should be able to control themselves around others
This is such a stupid straight people mindset, the insinuation that you “don’t need friends of the opposite sex when you have a significant other” is the dumbest shit I have ever heard in my entire life. If you’re suspicious of your partner wanting to fuck everyone with the opposite genitalia from them just because they’re attracted to the concept of it then you have bigger problems
This is an incredibly boring and nihilistic take on a what is a beautiful and complex emotion felt across the animal kingdom. Not only is romantic love more than a strategy for “survival and passing on your genes”. But love is not only romantic. The first love most humans feel if they’re lucky is familial or platonic love, because we spend a lot more time with friends and family during major developmental years than we do with romantic partners.
Because people need friends and it shouldn’t matter someone’s gender when you want to be friends with them I’m not friends with my friends because I NEED girl friends or boy friends I’m friends with them because I enjoy being around them. You seriously need to re-evaluate your reasonings for being friends with people if you think you need a REASON to be friends with someone of the opposite gender beyond that they’re someone you cherish having in your life