Ok I do get it tho like ya u can definitely have a conversation but if ur tired the last thing u wanna do is have that conversation and then it will probably be brought up later too so simply having whisky dick could just avoid all that it’s not wrong to hope to avoid tough conversations it’s human
CAN you do that? i guess. SHOULD you care enough about other survivors to not want to minimize your shared life-changing experience to a stupid joke that obviously didn’t land? i would argue yes. we weren’t talking about your experience specifically when you interjected, and you didn’t offer any context.
No it’s praying he has whiskey dick so you won’t have to have sex with him against your will. If it was your will to have sex with him you’d just have sex and if you felt comfortable rejecting his sexual advancements you wouldn’t wish he had whiskey dick just to get out of having sex with him. It’s really simple to follow.
Feeling bad for saying no is the problem here. Regardless of why it’s happening. The only reason someone would feel bad for saying no, is if they were made to be uncomfortable (guilted, etc.) after they said no before. You have a right to say no when it comes to your body, and you shouldn’t have to “pray for whiskey dick” to get out of sex you don’t want to have. You should just say no and that be the end of it. No guilting, no disrespecting your boundaries.
R u a lesbian? Because I seriously think anyone who’s into straight men would understand this joke. It’s not that deep. Men just always be wanting sex. 😭😭 it’s a joke about how u just hoping they don’t want it. I’m sure u could say no, but it just sucks always saying no… whatever
I literally have a husband. If you think the best you can hope for is to hope he doesn’t happen to want sex so you don’t have to if you don’t want to, then you’re setting yourself up for failure and abuse. It shouldn’t “suck to say no” it should be a non issue. You should feel comfortable saying no and knowing that your no will be respected without any pushback at all.