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I want to bring up issues to my roommate but every time there’s any tension between us they avoid me and I don’t want to have to deal with it
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Anonymous 6d

You are the problem. Stop creating tension. Just be nice. If they r a jerk, ignore them

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5d

That person shouldn’t have to live in an uncomfortable situation just to spare their roommates feelings. Their roommate is obviously the problem if they can’t grow up and handle it like an adult instead of playing the silent and avoiding game.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5d

I truly do try to listen to her and reach out when she does go MIA, but we spend so much time avoiding the conflict that when we talk about it I just let her speak and then go on our ways. So now I want to just get it all out before we start the cycle again.

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