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is my roommate is selfish? i provide so many of the snacks for us. i made a snack cart for us to share, and leave space for her. she hides her food from me. i never eat her stuff without asking. i share my snacks…but she eats them w/o asking.
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Anonymous 1d

I don’t think she’s selfish she just wants her own food separate from yours. If it bothers you just tell her you don’t want to share anymore and put your snack cart on your side of the room bc she’s not even using it.

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Anonymous 1d

I’d lowk stop providing for you both and just provide for yourself

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Anonymous 1d

Idk it depends on how close you two are. The offer of you sharing makes it seem like there wouldn’t be a need to ask for them, since they’re technically “both of yours” if that makes sense? But at the same time if you’re struggling with communicating it this early on I’d honestly just talk about it rather than letting it sit there and possibly having you be the only one that sees an issue. Also, there’s no need for either of you to share so if your roommate or even you don’t want to, dont share

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Anonymous 9h

I would just stop sharing your snacks. She doesn’t have to share their snacks with you, and you don’t have to share yours but it’s a nice gesture

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Anonymous 17h

She probably shares your snacks with her friends and acts like she is providing them

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