Anonymous #2 9w

Gotta be ragebait

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Anonymous #3 9w

I genuinely try to lead with kindness always. It’s never my intention to be an ass. This is the first time I’m struggling being nice to someone because they just can’t take accountability ever and we still have to live together for a long time. I mean pobodys nerfect, but I’ve given too much grace, and I’m exhausted playing mom at home while trying to make ends meet as a full time student with a part time job. I still ask please, I clean up after them, I give options so we can compromise

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Anonymous OP 9w

The only reason they think I’m an asshole is bc I distanced myself. I was open to friendship, but you have to be a good roommate first. Also our personalities just don’t mesh, and that’s fine it’s part of life. But they can’t hold it over my head that I’m a bitch when I say “Hey, please help me do a deep clean” or “Hey, please let me know if you’re having guests over in advance”

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Anonymous OP 9w

Yeah i totally get it like i sad ion see the problem if ur not being a huge bitch abt it but my roommate was genuinely being a bitch like she wasn’t asking she was telling

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Anonymous #3 9w

I kind of get her frustration though because why do other people have to ask you to do your part? 😭

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Anonymous #6 9w

It wouldn’t be my things but she would still talk nasty to evb. I did my part and more but apparently it wasn’t enough so i stopped gaf

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Anonymous #6 9w

so i started to only do my shi

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Anonymous #3 9w

while i do agree your tone does matter, nobody should have to ask you to clean your stuff especially in shared spaces 🥲

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Anonymous #7 9w

it wasn’t my stuff😭😭

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