Anonymous #1 20w

it’s unreal like girl cover yourself up

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Anonymous #2 20w

Probably share a room

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Anonymous #2 20w

we share a room

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Anonymous #5 20w

Nah that’s a bit off but, argue there’s ash inherent sexuality to nudity in most cases but again not a big deal if ur naked in your own room

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Anonymous OP 20w

Yeah no that’s literally a form of sexual harassment/abuse if you didn’t consent to it. Take it up with your RA and document everything in writing, this is very quickly turning into a legal issue

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Anonymous #7 20w

Yeah let me just expose myself to you on a daily basis without your consent and see how YOU like it

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So if I’m a guy and my male roommate is conventionally attractive (I’m not calling a guy hot not even in a hypothetical) I should be fine with possibly seeing his cock and balls in my peripheral vision?

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Anonymous #3 20w

Nudity enjoyers pushing their genital agenda on the rest of us isn’t good either it’s a common space it’s not her own room. If you want to have the whole nudist experience go with other nudist don’t impose you’re nudity on others.

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Anonymous #11 20w

Sounds like you have an agreement, albeit unspoken but still not the same situation as op

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Anonymous #12 20w

You say “expose” as if it’s sexualized, get a grip. It’s just nudity, you need to grow up, it’s not like she’s spreading her legs and masturbating in your face, seriously

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Anonymous #7 20w

If they feel uncomfortable they feel uncomfortable you have no right to dictate how a person feels regarding situations

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Anonymous #14 20w

I’m not dictating how they feel. They’re allowed to be uncomfortable. My point is that being uncomfortable doesn’t automatically mean the other person is doing something wrong. If someone prefers sleeping naked in their own bed and isn’t exposing themselves to intentionally make it sexual, then this sounds more like a compatibility issue between roommates than a moral issue.

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Anonymous #10 20w

That mindset is just absolutely wrong. Nudity is NOT inherently sexual. Clothes were invented after us, not before, nudity was normal until clothing was invented. Plus, clothing was not invented to “desexualize” people, it was invented to protect our bodies from worldly elements. Nothing about that is sexual.

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Anonymous #7 20w

Nudity isn’t inherently sexual but that changes absolutely NOTHING about the fact that it’s still a consent issue here

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Anonymous #12 20w

Consent for what? It’s not like they’re exposing themselves to she sexual, you can’t agree with nudity isn’t sexual and then basically call it sexual harassment. Them sleeping naked has nothing to do with you, there’s no consent needed for that. You’re allowed to be uncomfortable, but that doesn’t mean that what they’re doing is wrong, that’s just a roommate compatibility issue, not a moral one.

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Anonymous #7 20w

So you would be fine with someone nude in adult public, since there’s no ce sent need, and exposing yourself isn’t inherently sexual…

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Anonymous #16 20w

Why tf would I care?

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Anonymous #16 20w

Literally yes. If people want to be nudists and walk around absolutely naked in public idgaf. I’ll just look the other way and mind my business. So long as they’re not making it sexual by like rubbing on people or masturbating or something crazy then idc. Naked bodies don’t bother me

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Anonymous #15 20w

Naked is fine I do it often but I also live alone

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Anonymous #14 20w

Well that’s different. You live alone. I sleep naked when I’m alone too.

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Anonymous #7 20w

Just because it was done without sexual intent doesn’t make it okay. You realize that trauma victims exist too, right? Shit like that can be WILDLY triggering for people. It’s about fucking CONSENT. CONSENT!!!!! What do you not understand about that?

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Anonymous #5 20w

So the public includes children, are you still fine with being nude in their presence?

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Anonymous #16 20w

So it’s not inherently sexual for people, but it’s inherently sexual for children?

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Anonymous #12 20w

Then again, that's still not a moral issue, they just need a new roommate. Some people sleep with clothes, some people don't, if you have traumatic history and can't deal with it then get a new roommate.

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Anonymous #12 20w

That’s not sexual harassment, it’s nudity, nudity is not sexual, wtf are you saying right now?

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Anonymous #18 20w

Nudity is not sexual, you need to educate yourself.

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Anonymous #7 20w

Sounds like a moral issue

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Anonymous #7 20w

So a flasher is doing nothing wrong and everyone that has had charges for flashing should go free?

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Anonymous #7 20w

When it’s a matter of consent it absolutely IS a moral issue. The fact that you can’t grasp the concept of consent is EXTREMELY troubling 😬

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Anonymous #7 20w

If you in dorms go ask an ra if not ask your parents cause you missing smthn bro

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Anonymous #7 20w

It doesn’t really matter what you like doing in your own bed when you’re not in your own room. Once it starts affecting someone else regardless of how you feel you have to stop. What if it wasn’t nudity but they were just really dirty and their bed smelled? Are they still doing no wrong because they like the way their sheets smell 4 months in no shower before bed?

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Anonymous #14 20w

How does being nude in your own bed and smelling so rank your roommate can smell it compare in the slightest? One affects your roomate and the other doesn’t.

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Anonymous #7 20w

If you think being nude doesn’t affect your roommate then you shouldn’t be participating in this conversation as that was the whole point. Op is affected

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Anonymous #14 20w

Nah it’s still naked parts no matter what

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Anonymous #21 20w

I was answering someone who said if she’s hot it doesn’t matter

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Anonymous #14 20w

OP also didn’t say “how” it affects her, because it doesn’t. It literally has nothing to do with her, nothing changes in her life whether or not she has clothes on while in her bed, absolutely nothing

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Anonymous #7 20w

doesn't matter if it's not intentionally sexual. it is a non consensual exposure. you need to educate yourself

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Anonymous #7 20w

Atp just say you’re the roommate

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Anonymous #7 20w

crazy idea. some people don't want to see another person naked all of the time

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Anonymous #14 20w

I wish I could see my male roommates cock and balls in my peripheral vision

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You’re not very good at backing up your horrible claims…

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Anonymous #13 20w

Again, just because it makes you uncomfortable doesn’t mean they’re doing something wrong

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Anonymous #7 20w

I’m pretty sure you’re not supposed to be making the person you live with uncomfortable, especially when most of society agrees that you should not just be nude or else we would constantly be nude weather permitting. If you did this in dorms I’m pretty sure you could be kicked out, correct me if I’m wrong, so wouldn’t that mean that they are indeed doing something wrong?

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Anonymous #14 20w

People make people uncomfortable all the time, but you know what those things that make some people uncomfortable don’t affect other people at all. This isn’t a moral issue, it’s a personal preference, and if the personal preference is this important to them, then it’s not the other person doing something wrong, it’s this person that just needs to get a new roommate.

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Anonymous #7 20w

Just come out already before pride month is over and then everyone remembers

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Anonymous #23 20w

Dawg, it’s 2026, calling someone gay doesn’t really work as an insult anymore. Sorry to burst your bubble

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Anonymous #7 20w

Did I say gay was an insult?

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Anonymous #23 20w

That was definitely your insinuation, yes. Plus an assumption, both of which are an attempt at an insult and also incorrect, but whatever floats your boat.

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Anonymous #7 19w

So if I never shower and smell like shit and make my roomate uncomfortable I guess it’s ok and I’m not doing anything wrong

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Anonymous #20 19w

Those are two wildly, different scenarios, you being naked in your own bed doesn’t affect your roommate. Them smelling you because you smell like shit DOES affect them. Wild difference

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Anonymous #7 19w

People make you uncomfortable in your own home where you have no where to go to avoid it?

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Anonymous #7 19w

It’s not just the bed the roommate doesn’t seem to cover themselves before getting into the bed exposing op to something she doesn’t want to see

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Anonymous #14 19w

Exactly, that’s my point. Just because you’re uncomfortable doesn’t mean it’s their fault, that mindset is just so self entitled

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Anonymous #7 19w

It is quite literally their fault op is uncomfortable in their own home

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Anonymous #14 19w

Then find a new roommate, that's my point. The other person is clearly uncomfortable wearing clothes while they sleep. Again, this isn't a moral issue, it's a roommate compatibility issue. If there's no solution where both parties are comfortable, then they both need to find new roommates.

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Anonymous #7 19w

Do put words in my mouth if that’s what o wanted to say that’s what I would’ve said.

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Anonymous #23 19w

Then what was the point in saying what you said at all…?

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Anonymous #23 19w

This is top tier gaslighting right now bro💀

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Anonymous #12 19w

Shut the fuck up you’re sharing a room with another person. People have different living preferences

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Anonymous #25 19w

If it’s really that triggering, you need to live alone

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Anonymous #25 19w

Tell me you’re an only child without telling me you’re an only child

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Anonymous #14 19w

Live alone.

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Anonymous #25 19w

I don’t think not wanting to see someone naked means they have an issue. If anyone should live alone it’s the nudist… also why are you so triggered by something most consider normal?

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Anonymous #14 19w

A flasher. In their own room that they pay for.

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Anonymous #15 19w

Soooo

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Anonymous #25 19w

Why is it a problem when someone else does it then. If you’re a big ass baby, you need to live alone.

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Anonymous #25 19w

So just because I pay to be in the room with you you should tolerate everything I do? Yeah you’re a well adjusted adult who understands society

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Anonymous #25 19w

Because they aren’t naked. A big ass T shirt and underwear is literally being covered, depending on the size of the shirt I’ve seen people wear that outside, could you just be naked outside?

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Anonymous #14 19w

What’s considered normal is changing in their own room. If you really have a problem with seeing someone else naked then you need to live alone. Period.

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Anonymous #25 19w

You should be saying this to the nudist not the normal person who understands how to live in society

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Anonymous #25 19w

Especially sharing a room they’re not gonna walk on eggshells around you

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Anonymous #25 19w

When you share a room you understand how to bring your clothes to the bathroom to change unless you’re so dense you don’t understand how to be polite

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Anonymous #14 19w

The difference is they’re in the room that they pay for. Not outside and sleeping.

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Anonymous #25 19w

I would not in a two bedroom one bathroom walk out of the bathroom naked on the way to my room like I would in my current studio. As a matter of fact if I have a guest over I wouldn’t do that in my studio and they don’t even pay to be here

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Anonymous #25 19w

You say not outside and sleeping like they magically get in and out of their bed without being seen fully naked

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Anonymous #14 19w

Oh hell no. Who in the right mind is doing that every time?

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Anonymous #25 19w

It sounds like a boundary their roommate doesn’t want crossed. They paid for that room too. Sometimes people have to compromise. And that means sleeping in a t-shirt and underwear.

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Anonymous #25 19w

All of you’re responses sound incredibly sheltered and unprepared to live with someone

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Anonymous #14 19w

And this is nuance because if it’s a two bedroom that’s even more of a reason for that roommate to mind their business. Unless they sleep with the door open.

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Anonymous #14 19w

The pot calling the kettle black. If you freak out when the person you share a room with is naked in said room, you need to live alone. That is such a normal thing it’s not even funny

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Anonymous #25 19w

Me and my roommate get naked to get dressed and stuff. But sleeping fully nude is completely different. They’re quite literally getting butt-ass naked to walk around the house and sleep. If their roommate sets that boundary, they need to respect it.

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Anonymous #15 19w

OK, it’s weird to walk around. But if they take off their clothes to get in the bed to sleep, I don’t understand how that’s a big deal…

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Anonymous #25 19w

It’s a big deal if the roommate is uncomfortable with it. People need to respect boundaries. If their roommate has set a boundary that they don’t feel comfortable with their roommate being naked, then it needs to be respected.

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Anonymous #15 19w

But the thing is when you’re under sheets and blankets you will probably never know that they were even naked. you’re literally covered up when you sleep. You really must be the roommate from hell because that is such a non-issue to complain about

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Anonymous #25 19w

if they're under the blanket then OP wouldn't have noticed. clearly they're walking around butt naked before they go to sleep and that's what OP is talking about. or when they sleep they don't use a blanket/it comes off in the middle of the night

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Anonymous #9 19w

I’ve brought this up 25 is being purposely obtuse I hope if not I pray for anyone who has to be near them

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Anonymous #14 19w

yeah as i scrolled i realized that. the whole thing about "you need to live alone if someone being naked" is so dumb.. maybe if someone wants to be naked in the hours before going to sleep THEY should be living alone

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Anonymous #14 19w

Yes, you need to understand that there are people that are different from you. sleeping naked is very fucking common

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Anonymous #14 19w

They’re not “imposing” anything, do you hear yourself right now??? Her sleep would be no different whether her roommate was wearing clothes in her bed or not, nothing is being fucking imposed, you’re actually just a lunatic

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Anonymous #25 19w

I don’t know what this guy is saying bro, saying “imposed” like her life is any different whether or roomate is wearing clothes in her bed or not, actually insane

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Anonymous #7 19w

i'd argue that if OP is uncomfortable in their own home it would cause them to not sleep as well than if they were comfortable so roommate not wearing clothes is impacting their sleep

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Anonymous #9 19w

Walking around and sleeping naked are two different issues. The OP said that they were sleeping naked.

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Anonymous #7 19w

Not her sleep but her experience in her own room is ruined because her roommate walks around naked before bed so would mine be if my roommate would walk out the shower when I was in my 2b1b and I was in the living room. It’s not polite snd not something someone who is adjusted to living in society should be doing. If she were to as someone said somewhere get in bed then slip off her clothes and put them back on again before getting out of bed there would be no issue.

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Anonymous #9 19w

Nope, if you’re hypersensitive and can’t handle different personalities and behaviors then please don’t put that on somebody else

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Anonymous #14 19w

The issue comes from her being flashed by her roommate

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Anonymous #9 19w

Bro I’m actually starting to believe 25 has issues

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Anonymous #9 19w

Well first of all, that’s a ridiculous argument, nobody is getting worse sleep just because their roommate across the room has no clothes on under her covers. It’s wild you’d even try arguing that, that’s actually just insane. Second, if it’s that hard for her, then she should just find a new roommate. Her roommate shouldn’t have to stop sleeping naked just because it makes her uncomfortable. Sleeping naked is normal, nudity isn’t inherently sexual, so there’s nothing wrong with it.

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Death threats is crazy because I ask to keep clothes on in communal spaces?

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Anonymous #14 19w

They have issues because they’re mature enough to recognize nudity as a normal thing whereas you just see it as inherently sexual? No, dude, I think you’re the one that has issues.

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Anonymous #7 19w

The real question is if this is reported who would be getting reprimanded once you figure that out then you’ll understand more. Also yes if you’re uncomfortable your sleep will be affected that is normal you cannot have the same sleep quality as when you do feel comfortable

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Y’all mad because I’m right I’m never going to agree with you because this is fucking insane

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Yeahh that’s reported

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Anonymous #25 19w

We aren’t mad we’ll 22 might be but we also recognise that you just aren’t right the like to dislike ratio alone tells you that. There’s a reason there are designated nudist spaces nudity isn’t accepted everywhere and if you’re roommate asks that you not be nude in their presence that is a boundary that should be upheld

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Lmao🤣🤣🤣 that’s why your roommate hates you

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Anonymous #14 19w

A couple points here. Nudity isn’t accepted in many places for hygienic reasons, but it’s not like she’s going over and sitting on her roommates bed, she’s sitting on her own. Other than hygienics, nudity isn’t accepted because of people like you who don’t want it to be accepted. You’re the issue, not them.

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Anonymous #7 19w

Nudity is not ´normal’ you can not walk around nude in public, you cannot go to class nude, I dare you to go to court nude. What is normal is to cover up when in the presence of people

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Anonymous #7 19w

Hygiene is only one issue with nudity

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Anonymous #7 19w

Gaslighting how

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Anonymous #23 19w

Bro just throwing buzzwords

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Anonymous #23 19w

You assume I’m gay and tell me to come out, and then say that you’re not assuming anything? Absolute gaslighting, bro.

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Anonymous #7 19w

I’m gay

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Anonymous #14 19w

Yeah, give me others. And don’t say “because it makes people uncomfortable” that’s a stupid argument

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Anonymous #23 19w

I’m a musical theater, major, I’m friends with more gay people than you’ll ever know, dude really thinks I’m gonna be offended

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Anonymous #7 19w

Honestly especially if you share a room it makes me uncomfortable is a perfectly reasonable answer and that should be the only answer you need

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Anonymous #14 19w

But you can’t compare this to court. The closest comparison would be a locker room. there are people that choose to go to the bathroom to change, but most people change in the open. you need to be an adult.

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Anonymous #25 19w

Who is most people? Just because you choose to doesn’t mean most people do. I would argue most people complain about the old guy with his dick out

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Anonymous #14 19w

It can make you uncomfortable, that’s fine, but just because you’re uncomfortable doesn’t mean what they’re doing is wrong. If it bothers YOU, then YOU need to get a new roommate, they shouldn’t have to stop what they’re doing.

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Anonymous #7 19w

So if I’m in a dorm as they most probably are and go to reslife who will get reprimanded I’ve asked this multiple times no one has answered.

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Anonymous #14 19w

Are we talking about an old guy waving his dick at little children? We’re talking about a roommate, the same age as you sleeping naked under their covers, you’re just making stuff up now

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Anonymous #14 19w

Are you a girl? What about sisterhood? if a girl needs to change in your room are you gonna be like ew change in here?

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Anonymous #7 19w

Someone put this in the locker room I spoke about what I heard because me personally I’ve never seen this because most people understand how to live in society they either use a towel or they go to the bathroom as they should. And you say that like they magically appear naked in their bed and then magically appear in the bathroom in the morning

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Anonymous #14 19w

No one’s gonna get reprimanded, you’re both just gonna get new roommates. How many times do I have to say this, this is NOT a MORAL issue, this is a roommate COMPATIBILITY issue. Learn the difference.

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Anonymous #25 19w

*dont

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Anonymous #25 19w

I am not a girl I still find it weird why wouldn’t you just go to the bathroom to change? Would that not be better than showing another girl your naked body? If the bathroom is open then just go if not then 1 you could wait or I can excuse myself while you change why are you so adamant on having an audience to change? And even then this isn’t the same situation they walk around naked before getting into bed then walk around naked in their morning again

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Anonymous #7 19w

Some part of me doesn’t believe this

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Anonymous #7 19w

Yeah, no RA would reprimand a student for being naked in their room. I will say it’s weird to walk around naked, but if you’re getting naked to get in the bed or getting naked to put on clothes for the day that is not morally wrong.

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Anonymous #25 19w

Thank you, I don’t get why people are trying to make this a moral issue, it’s not😭

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Anonymous #25 19w

hey i'm an RA it is considered a title 9 issue whether or not you like that fact. that is just the procedure. residents choose what actions to take but it is absolutely reason enough to file for that. yes it is socially taboo and that can be argued but that's just how it is right now and the post implies OP sees the body of the roommate and does not feel comfortable with it. it's not about you it's about OP who is uncomfortable and expressing that

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Anonymous #13 19w

Also an RA here, it would be appreciative of the roommate of OP to be considerate and keep dressed in the event of a roommate switch happening in the next handful of days, but would not be required. And as nudity is not inherently sexual, this could not be a title 9 because there is nothing sexual about this, there are no grounds for a title 9 here. To do so would imply nudity is sexual and it’s not.

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