Anonymous OP 11w

…which I get it, conflicting views. But if you hate their views so much then either don’t come or don’t complain and try to start a fight in the house they rented on the beach and eating the food they bought you - btw my parents just love fireworks, they would watch it no matter who the president is - also in that tried to say some sort of “smart” political thing that even I knew was incorrect. (She only watched tik tok for news and apparently she watches AI) - moved to sit between me…

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Anonymous OP 11w

…and my other friend when we were walking up to a restaurant late, as if I wasn’t going to sit next to her. - we were late bc my other friend couldn’t eat the food at the restaurant so I went somewhere else with him, the friend this list is about was invited but didn’t want to come. - “stop I’m going to cry” in a whiny voice bc I was going to have a cigarette - I couldn’t drink and as awful as it is I needed smth more than ibuprofen for my knee, it helped for 2 min lol

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Anonymous OP 11w

- idk if this is mean to say but given she is concerned about possibly having diabetes: she’s eating a ton of junk food, like multiple ice cream sandwiches EVERY DAY, then complains about being sick/over weight, complains she may have diabetes, and then does nothing to burn the energy. Idk if it’s mean but I wouldn’t care if she didn’t complain about it the way she does.

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Anonymous OP 11w

Now, for the annoying “childish” stuff she does: - talks in baby voice 24/7 - basically can’t do things herself bc “I’m just a baby/girl” - “can you get my boogie board? The sands hot and my baby feet can’t handle it but you probably can” - no common sense even after being told what to do/how smth worked - constantly yelling - “you’re my adult”

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Anonymous OP 11w

- also doesn’t like if I get drunk. We are 22 and 21 on vacation for the fourth I’m going to drink - forgetting things/losing stuff bc “my ADHD”. She’s medicated for it. I only just got diagnosed bc we weren’t able to do testing until now, those are problems I still have but they weren’t as bad as hers since i was like 15. - she acts like a baby, pretty sure her family enables her acting helpless, but then complains she can’t do more adult things. - wanted to fish and then barely fished,

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Anonymous OP 11w

That last one bothers me bc I we wouldn’t have gotten 2 rods if we knew she wouldn’t really fish. Also all of these were just so bad, like I was already annoyed at the first half of the trip and my other friend kinda agrees with me bc they saw it too. She also just made him really uncomfortable at times like “idk my type is blondes ig” “OOO like MEEE” “uhh no” “whyyyyy”, even my parents are annoyed. Everyone agrees she’s just not matured at all and I can’t do it. 18 years and I can’t do it

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Anonymous OP 11w

I can’t be friends with someone who’s refusing to mature. To even just not be immature 24/7. Just so I don’t feel like I’m taking care of a toddler. My other friend flat out said he felt like we were pseudo parents to her and yeah, even on other trips I’m “responsible for her”. I can’t do it. I needed to air this out. I’m done. Bc what people don’t think of is her acting like this makes me unable to have fun. I always have to be mature/serious/the adult

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Anonymous OP 11w

I feel I need to mention too, when she was complaining about their politics I saw her texting people saying she can’t believe my parents “support HIM” and calling them stupid and such. If she had a non tik tok based opinion fine, but she’s calling my family names. My family who’s paying. That bothers me. I’m also non political to both sides and I thought the fireworks were cool. Yeah bad for the environment but still looked cool

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Anonymous OP 11w

My mom is blind, it’s hard for her to see a lot. But she wanted to see the fireworks on TV from there. She can see the color contrast. Sorry it wasn’t my friends ideal president but tf am I supposed to do about that

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Anonymous #3 11w

It’s not a super expensive trip, it’s an hours from our home, it’s the fact they pay and she acts this way towards me/them. She threw smth at my face this morning to “wake me up” even though I was awake. Thank god I was awake though bc that would have sent me into an anxiety attack (I can be suddenly touched in my sleep, especially the face, due to a year of assault from an ex). She knows this btw

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Anonymous OP 11w

*can’t be suddenly touched touched. Sorry new phone is ass with auto correct, even if I type the right word 😭

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Anonymous OP 11w

Oh yeah, something else, she will complain about being hungry if I’m like doing stuff for my parents before we leave or if I’m getting ready or something. However, we have a ton of food in the house. I don’t necessarily want to eat out all the time and she’s acting like we can’t just eat the sandwich supplies that we have. I’m spending my own money when we go out to eat.

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Anonymous OP 11w

“I hungwy” as I’m taking out the trash and helping my dad

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Anonymous #4 11w

Yup. We aren’t roommates just nowhere else to post. She came out to help me move and wasn’t much help, just wanted a mountains vacation, and by then she was already invited by my family here. They’re also done with her

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Anonymous #3 11w

Everyone downvoting me cause it applies to them too 😂

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Anonymous #3 11w

I didn’t downvote but I think it’s bc you read as you being dismissive to my discomfort bc I’ve done vacation. This is also my last one before leaving for vet school (I won’t be able to afford coming home) so kinda annoying the situation

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Anonymous OP 11w

#3 is being ridiculous, they’re totally being dismissive of valid complaints because apparently if you have enough money to go on vacation every SIX YEARS you suddenly can’t complain about anything ?

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Anonymous #3 11w

Yeah, that’s why you’re getting downvoted, totally not because you ignored everything OP was talking about and instead focused OP’s family’s ability to go on vacation.

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Anonymous amethyst_popping_bottles 11w

I will also say, I understand that my family gets to do things that other people may not be able to do. But I’m extremely grateful for it, and I try to share some of that stuff with my friends like I have been for the past few years with this one.

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Anonymous OP 11w

Oh shit then this friend definitely is off the invite list for vacations and other outings, at least anything where you have to be with her for extended periods of time or where you or her are in any danger. Basically daytime outings where you can easily ditch her safely if she pulls a stunt again.

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Anonymous #7 11w

That’s fair, maybe this is the same person. What state are you from?

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Anonymous OP 11w

New one for yall that I got reminded of: She tried to tell me that my mom was upset my other friend was drunk. He wasn’t drunk and I asked her and she said “I wasn’t upset at him, I was annoyed with her bc she was bothering you”. They think she’s jealous that I’m just generally doing better, specially with having friends/losing weight bc she used to be the smaller one with more friends. I never treated her and her friends this way though…

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Anonymous #8 11w

OK, if someone has an opinionated as you agrees, then I feel a bit better about being annoyed.Like again, I’m not political, you can tell by my post that my parents are republican, but the way she acted and can’t back up a single opinion with fact is insane. Thank you for making me feel less crazy for that part

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Anonymous OP 11w

*as opinionated, sorry I was using Siri I also just hate that she was texting people and instead of fact she was just like “her parents are so stupid” type stuff…

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Anonymous OP 11w

I just straight up wouldn’t have gone on a trip with your Republican family if I knew that was going to be that big of an issue for me. Having strong beliefs is one thing, but taking someone’s generosity and throwing it at them like that is unacceptable. It’s YOUR family’s 4th of July celebration. If she knew she truly would not like it THAT much, which I guarantee she did, she just shouldn’t have gone. Either go and keep your mouth shut or stay home and celebrate how you want.

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Anonymous #8 11w

I personally chose to suck it up and spend the holiday with MY Republican family. They were so vicious after I asked not to talk politics that I’ve decided I just don’t want to be around them on that holiday. Your friend is an adult woman and she’s fully capable of making that same choice. But everyone should get to enjoy their holiday and she went out of her way to make sure that couldn’t happen for you

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Anonymous #8 11w

FUCKING THANK YOU!! She also tried to have me tell my parents to not talk about politics bc “my bf is over seas and if I hear about the war I’ll cry”. They never mentioned the war, that’s literally not smth they talk about. But it’s the Fourth of July it’s celebrating America. I’m sorry my dad said “trump is awesome for those fireworks”, my parents are 60, they love fireworks. My friend got annoyed and my dad said “you’d like it if it was a democrat”. She didn’t have a come back

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Anonymous OP 11w

Like idk why she wants to go if my parents are such an issue, I literally tune it out. Not only that but it was a YouTube video of fireworks, we weren’t there. My friend tried to get me on her side by talking about environmental impact (I work with animals) and I just reminded her how she litters bc no you won’t make me mad while watching pretty sky explosion

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Anonymous OP 11w

(We did see fireworks in person tho.) something else is my friend seems to forget that my mom is blind so these fireworks are some of the few things that she can actually see, like even though we watched the DC ones through a video she told us that’s the first time she’s been able to see anything on the screen in a while.

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Anonymous OP 11w

Sorry I said a lot lol, I just was feeling crazy

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Anonymous OP 11w

I don’t mean to sound mean with the weight comment, that’s just what other people have actually said. I used to be really over weight and have like 2 friends, she was the opposite, not it’s flipped and she can’t handle it. Something that anyone who’s seen pics of us/knew us before have commented on

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Anonymous OP 11w

I also don’t think she got a job before 18 and I worked since 16, then after my first year of college I worked at vets offices instead of the golf place with her. She’s just now getting her first real internship in her friend at 21 :)

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Anonymous OP 11w

The more I learn about this girl the more I believe it would be better to just cut her out of your life completely, at least until she learns to keep shit to herself and treat others with respect

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Anonymous amethyst_popping_bottles 11w

Ikr, she’s working at her student union, refuses to get a second job but complains about money (she doesn’t have summer classes or anything like that), pretty sure she sits inside all day when she’s not working, and she’s gonna say smth about me not having a job when I just moved??

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Anonymous OP 11w

Also I paid for a good bit for her, both when she came to my school and on that trip, kinda sad to rely on your unemployed friend

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