Roommate Rants on Sidechat | How do I nicely tell one of my roommate’s I’m not comfortable with her boyfriend spending the night almost every night? We have separate rooms but he is over enough that I see him everyday, I did not agree to an extra roommate and she never asks

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Roommate Rants 1w

How do I nicely tell one of my roommate’s I’m not comfortable with her boyfriend spending the night almost every night? We have separate rooms but he is over enough that I see him everyday, I did not agree to an extra roommate and she never asks

Anonymous 1w

When i don’t want to be confrontational i send a message first, just a quick hey im not comfortable with this and if that doesn’t work you really need to corner and express to the extent you’re uncomfortable to really get your point across

Anonymous 1w

How often do you see him, I think whenever you get the chance you should let her know that you don’t want him over all the time. As for separate rooms, that’s kinda the tricky part, it’s one thing if he is in the shared spaces such as kitchen and living room but if he is only in her room and not being a bother to you then i think her having him over shouldn’t be an issue. She should ask more if that would help

Anonymous

#1 1w

Our walls are really thin so whenever they are in her room and I’m in the common area I can hear them talking which isn’t horrible and I can get over that, it’s just more like in the morning when I just woke up and I’m trying to get breakfast and he’s in our kitchen cooking. Or when I’m trying to sleep and they are cooking and I can hear them loud and clear. Like he’s not paying to live here and it’s not cheap