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I try to chit chat with my roommate, not cause I want to but cause it’s awkward asf when it’s so quiet and we barely even know each other. Tbh I am so over this, it’s all one sided convos anyways. Idk what to do
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Anonymous 13h

It’s so weird having a friendlier relationship with my boyfriend’s roommate than a bunch of people have with their own

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Anonymous 12h

ppl need peace and quiet from being out all day having to interact with everyoe. you think I wanna go back to my place and have my ear yapped off there too ??? You think it’s nice to spend all day every day just nonstop talking

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Anonymous 10h

just bc you’re roommates doesn’t mean you have to be friends leave the girl alone omg

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Anonymous 13h

This is so real, i try to make conversation and i get such 1d answers that it's not even worth it

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Anonymous 12h

Sometimes people recharge alone & don’t wanna talk 24/7 especially when they’ve been masking all day

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Anonymous 1h

My best advice is ask if she wants to do something occasionally. Say, “I’m gonna go grab dinner, want to come with?” or “Wanna watch a movie?” or “Do you want to play cards/connect 4/etc?” Literally whatever. If she’s not interested, oh well. If she is, you break the ice.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 11h

I don’t talk to her longer than maybe 1-2 mins a day, we just moved in so I am just trying to get to know her.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 11h

Yea but we just moved in, it would be nice to have a conversation atleast once.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11h

Fr tho, we haven’t even gone over anything. Longest convo we had was 30 secs

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11h

I have this problem, I am closer to my neighbors than my own roommate

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

Well maybe give that context before getting upset and downvoting?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

like last night someone was yelling outside our dorm obviously joking and i asked my room mate "did you hear that ? i wonder why they were screaming haha" and they go "i don't know, but they were just playing around probably" DUH I JUST WANTED TO HAVE A SILLY CONVERSATION god

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11h

I felt this to my core, I try to joke around and get the driest replies

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 10h

I fear if someone wanted this they should have moved into a one bedroom or drive to school

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4h

we're in this together OP 🤝

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