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upstairs neighbor is terrorizing me and the RA won't do shit but if i retaliate i'm the asshole
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Anonymous 18h

if the ra won’t do shit go above the RA to the full time staff

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Anonymous 18h

What I’ve learned with like a dozen different roommates and tons of communal living situations is: when RA or other authorities won’t take care of your problems then you gotta either say something to the aggressor or retaliate fully. Give it back to em like a mf

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Anonymous 12h

if i can give any word of advice, i would go to the dean or, if you have a head of res life, go to them. that's the best thing you can do atp

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 15h

we call those rd's

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 15h

i figured, most schools do. i’m an rd

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 15h

Wish I had an rd. 'RLCs' at my school don't do SHIT

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 15h

def go to the dean

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12h

nice! i'm an ra in training so i try to help w this stuff to the best of my ability.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 12h

awesome! i hope training goes well, make sure to take care of your mental health when you can!

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