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does anyone else’s roommate not talk to them and just stay in the room all day, she was supposed to be my built in friend but now i just feel lost as a freshman
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Anonymous 10w

you dont have to be friends, you just have to be able to live with each other

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Anonymous 10w

While this truly sucks, I’ll warn you for the future you just can’t go into these sorts of things with the expectation that they’ll be your bestie 😭 9 times out of 10 you’ll be disappointed. The most you can pray for is that they’ll be a good roommate (clean, pay rent on time, communicate) and even THAT is hard to come by anymore

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Anonymous 10w

Yeah mine too and sometimes it makes me feel like I’m a loser but lowk I came here to get this degree

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Anonymous 10w

me and one of my roommates were super tight but like out of nowhere she started acting like this and im lowkey not here for it..

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Anonymous 10w

This sounds exactly like my roommate 😭😭 I think he might be depressed but I don’t think he would open up to me and sometimes I think he’s purposely avoiding spending time with me

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Anonymous 10w

your roommates don’t owe you a built in best friend!

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Anonymous 10w

🤷‍♀️ its been 2 days maybe shes shy? everyones different and if they dont wanna talk then they dont wanna

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Anonymous 10w

yea it could just be that she’s having trouble getting used to a new environment so you’ll see later ig

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Anonymous 10w

Dm me if u wanna trade insta

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Anonymous 10w

FRRR

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Anonymous 10w

yea so that’s def a comms problem and super uncomfortable im sorry 😭😭😭

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