2) she is up late at night either laughing super loud while watching youtube videos or balling her eyes out over class work that she’s stressed about. the other day she ran up to my other roommate and I and insisted on interviewing us immediately for a project she had due that night even though we were in the middle of doing intense homework of our own. i’ve tried to help with her sadness by offering up counseling services I know of or suggesting places she can go to be tutored but she doesn’t

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5) to recognize it, but when I can’t feel safe and comfortable in my own home idk how many more reservations I should be making to try and make her feel that way. anyhoo, that’s the end. if you think I’m the asshole, honestly please tell me. I feel like I need an unbiased opinion here

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3) seem to be responsive to these options or when they don’t go exactly right she continues her breakdown. I walk into my apartment and i’m immediately anxious that i’m going to be accosted with conversation topics I have no interest in or forced to have niceties with someone who doesn’t know how to interact like a functioning person. she talked to our RA down the hall about not feeling like she’s a part of the apartment but I feel like that’s her own doing. i’ve asked for so little and made so

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4) many reservations because I do truly believe that she should feel safe in her home just as much as I do, but the fact that I have to live with her and her mess and her constant issues is making my own stress and anxiety levels skyrocket. I just don’t even know what to do at this point. i’ve tried to talk to her but i’m worried i’m gonna make her mental state worse if I ask her to do simple chores for the 8th time with no results. I feel like an asshole tbh, maybe i’m just ableist and unable

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1) doesn’t clean up after herself and leave dishes rotting in the sink until I ask her to clean them. only then does she start and she acts like a victim whenever I ask her to pick up after helpful with PERFUSE “i’m sorry, i’m so sorry, I hope you don’t think i’m a bad roommate”. she cannot read social situations and often inserts herself into 1 on 1 conversation when she walks into the living room.

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It sounds like you need to contact her parents and kick her out, im sorry

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