
Ima rant now: they invited a dv survivor to live in our apartment without giving me proper notice. They didn’t supper this person and dropped the responsibility to go to a wedding. They have a money spending problem. They know I left a dv situation and I’m low income, I fled my situation to be a roommate with them. Back in July they invited a stranger over and I was saed by this person. My “friend” just watched.
I would have contacted the police if I still didn’t live with them. College isn’t helping because the people involved are not students and I live off campus. The other dv survivor has no idea what happened back in July. It took my boyfriend to point out something was off with my roommate/friend for me to except the reality my friend is not my friend. When I opened up to my roommate about July, hoping they were maybe frozen from fear they made it about themselves, “oh yeah, this happened before.”
This statement opened the floodgates of self reflection and rethinking everything about them. I known them for 6 years. I feel so stupid but here are red flag statements I ignored as a 18 year old. “Everyone leaves me” “I was accused of rape (intern their own trauma dump of their past and everything is bad)”. I am seeing the same pattern with this new person they invited, a literal mirror of myself with vulnerability it’s disgusting