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The fact that my dad has to ask me “what is that noise” when we are in ft and it’s my roommates screaming from the living room should say a lot
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Anonymous 6w

imo i fear you just need to have a convo with them, i’m loud with my friends sometimes and my roommate was getting passive aggressive. so i said hey is this bothering you let’s talk, we talked abt boundaries and when i can have ppl over. if u don’t talk to them they might just keep doing it not knowing it upsets u thats what i went thru. i wouldn’t jump to being mad bc they’re probably just having fun at college and are unaware

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Anonymous 6w

wtf 😭😭😭

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Anonymous 6w

it’s a canon event i’m afraid

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Anonymous 6w

Video games?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

No, just screaming with their friends 😐

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 6w

See the problem is I’ve talked to them multiples times, in person and text reminders. Me and my other roommate tried to set a boundary of not having people after past 12 on weeknights but they straight up didn’t listen

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

yeah that’s crossing a line then they seem like an asshole, have u contacted the ra? idk if they’d get mad at u for reporting it but then you’d at least have documentation that you set a boundary and they’re violating it

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 6w

idk if they’d get kicked out but maybe, u could say it’s interrupting ur studies / sleep or make a noise complaint

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 6w

Unfortunately I’m in an apartment, not dorms so there’s no ra

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