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Roommate Rants 4w
my roommate assumes all my friends are also hers, and cries when i don’t invite her to stuff. it’s actually driving me batshit insane
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Anonymous 4w

You mentioned she’s ND. Have you tried telling her gently you’d prefer to keep your friend group separate from hers? You also don’t have to do every meal with her. This situation would make me crazy

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Anonymous 4w

maybe invite her to one thing and see how it goes? she’s probably just lonely and likes you

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

the thing is she wants to hang out 24/7. i already eat every meal with her (she INSISTS). we have nothing in common and most often we just sit in silence with nothing to talk about :(

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

aww dang

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

i should preface this by saying that she’s neurodivergent, and is probably around 14/15 years old mentally. we live in a one-room dorm, meaning any time i spend in the dorm is with her

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

i’ve tried gently talking to her about minor things (ex: her using my laundry detergent) and she had a full breakdown. i know i need to have the conversation eventually, but i also feel awful when she reacts that way

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