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Roommate Rants 10w
Yall if your roommate is not leaving your dorm it’s probably because they are depressed and you should probably go check up on them.
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Anonymous 10w

My roommate said she could hear me crying in my room and she “didn’t have time for that” so.

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Anonymous 10w

what if i take them out and we do everything in silence

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Anonymous 10w

Not my job to babysit, mine doesn’t go anywhere and then watches me change. Like hello?? I feel way to uncomfortable to talk to them

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Anonymous 10w

This was my roommate last year. Every time I tried to extend an olive branch he would just blow me off and stay in denial. You can only help people that want to be helped.

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Anonymous 10w

Fuck that

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Anonymous 9w

my roommate doesn’t go out or even do anything, like- i’ve even checked up on her and i had to bring up new boundaries because she’s been very inconsiderate and loud in the morning and with her trash etc. and she’s been rude since- and i was very respectful and mature about it. and she’s always in the room skipping class etc. and i’ve checked up on her and have asked her if everything is alright and she’ll blow me off or give me a rude look.. #applyingforaroomchange

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Anonymous 9w

Meanwhile my roommate who never does anything with me sees me crying about how I have no friends and then continues never doing anything with me

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

Oh my god I’m so sorry

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

Girl tell her you’re crying in YOUR ROOM and you don’t have time for her attitude

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10w

As a senior who had multiple bad roommates , trust me you just got to be blunt about it. Your space is YOUR SPACE and shared areas and SHARED AREAS and if they cant accept basic boundaries then they’re the ones who have to deal with it

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 10w

i can't speak to your roommate, but i used to love doing that with mine. i was glad she motivated me to get a change of scenery and enjoy the silence when we didn't have anything to talk about

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 10w

the idea that you can only help people who want to be helped is bs -person who didn't want to be helped but was

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Anonymous replying to -> evilandgay 9w

People make their own choices

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 9w

having an entirely internal locus of control isn't realistic

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 9w

Oh 😃

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Anonymous replying to -> evilandgay 9w

Doesn’t help that alot of people who need help spit in the faces of those who try to help them, either because their in denial, or say things like “oh well you don’t REALLY care” so yeah stuff like that tends to push people away

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 9w

*they’re

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 9w

no one is saying you HAVE to help. all i'm saying is that you can

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

No the way I said it was correct

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 9w

it really wasn't 😭😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 9w

Yes it was look it up

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 9w

it wasnt 😋they're = they are. their = ownership

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 9w

Yes, so you just proved my point. You don’t say “people make they are own choices”. People make THEIR own choices. As in taking ownership of their choices. Boom.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 9w

you said "their in denial"

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 9w

Oh I thought you were talking about when I said people make their own choices. In which case yeah they’re would’ve been the correct usage

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