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Y’all don’t get what I was saying. My ex roommate expected the apartment to be DEEP CLEANED DAILY even though the rest of us had classes and jobs. We swept 2-3 times a week, mopped weekly, never left messes, and she still complained constantly
Hot take: if you have cleanliness standards well above the average person, you can only expect your roommates to meet you halfway. The rest is on you
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Anonymous 21w

She complained that we weren’t cleaning our individual bedrooms enough

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Anonymous 21w

Bro you should’ve been more specific then, don’t get heated. I’ll validate that. Totally weird that they cared so much about your personal spaces. I mean I do a chore day biweekly, and clean up after myself the rest of the time. Expecting a place to be that clean is unrealistic for adults with different schedules 100%

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Anonymous 21w

Dude all I asked my roommates to do was vacuums their rooms once a month and for us to take turns vacuuming and mopping common areas every other week….they still complained and asked like it was a crazy request.

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Anonymous 21w

I did all the cleaning and once I was about to be late to work so gosh forbid I leave a dish in the sink and she started talking shit about me bc of it

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Anonymous 21w

This sounds like my old roommate and I literally just moved in w my boyfriend to avoid her and her attitude

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Anonymous 21w

okay this sounds normal ngl but she’s weird for still complaining

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 21w

For sure. I def could’ve worded it better. I have pretty high standards also, so I meet people halfway when it makes sense, but she refused to do that

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 21w

Their bedrooms isn’t really your business though

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 21w

Not vaccuming their own rooms can lead to a few issues. 1, more dust staying in the air and not being removed. 2, dirt, grime, and whatever else on their carpet gets moved to the rest of the house from them walking to and from the room. 3, say one leaves crumbs all over in their room, now the whole apartment/house is infested with ants. Overall, it’s a general cleanliness of the place that is needed. Now obviously the roommate can’t say it needs to be done on the 7th of the month every month.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 21w

Mine had issues with dishes too, I’d be in the middle of cooking still and she’d give me a timer of less than 24 hours to clean my own pots and pans…

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 21w

Tbh we only asked of that because we could smell their room from the downstairs since they never cleaned.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 21w

Oh hell nah 🤢

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