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im a college athlete and an engineering major living with three other girls… I should not be the only one doing the damn chores around the dorm like istg they just sit on their asses please help a girl out
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Anonymous 21h

one of you needs to take charge- but do it tactfully- some people were just raised to be lazy- i get a little lazy- but communicate your expectations 👍🏻

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Anonymous 18h

Only clean up after yourself. Find core things that you interact with on a daily basis and tend to those things only. I’m in a similar situation, so I get it.

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Anonymous 18h

Literally make a chore chart. I live with 3 others. One does sweeping/mopping of the common area, another does trash and recycle and mail. Third does counters and sink, and then oven and microwave are the fourth option. Then your own room is your own. If they don’t hold up their part, bug them.

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Anonymous 16h

Put a chore chart, it gives you the privilege to easily call out anyone without being rude.

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Anonymous 19h

chore chart?

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Anonymous 19h

No mames

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Anonymous 18h

Take on the leadership and start laying out some rules that all of you can follow.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 19h

Ppl

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 18h

One of my roommates wanted to make one… never got done :/ I’ll work on it soon tho!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 18h

It’s just so frustrating, like I’m already so busy I do not have the time to clean up after you

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

That’s why u shop with us #ggfrickinez

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

Fr!!! I had to buy a lunchbox that I use whenever I eat. Like I used to enjoy having wine nights and whatnot, but now the thermos is my bsf and ONLY cup I use

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16h

my old roommates and i used to mark whatever chore we did with our initials on a whiteboard calendar we had on the fridge and if the distribution wasn’t roughly equal we’d talk to the person who was slacking off and have them get their shit together. that way you have a bit of flexibility too in case someone’s busier one week than the others but you still have accountability. this worked really well for us so might be worth it for y’all to try!

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 16h

i do this exact same thing!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4h

Literally, bro. I almost had a fucking aneurysm living in a communal dorm because of how disgusting the “a little lazy” people were. Dishes in the sink overnight, trash left in the kitchen, floor dirty, piss in the toilet -on the seats- the laundry room a fucking mess.. I couldn't fucking do it. It astounds me that people don't see anything wrong with that.

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