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Roommate Rants 1w
My roommates gf is at my room everyday all day and I give them space. I had my girl at my room for the first time this semester and my roommates girl comes and sits in the room with us and does work when there’s an empty ass living room. Disrespect?
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Anonymous 1w

Hang on, was your roommate’s gf over without the roommate? If she was why was she there in the first place? Also is this a shared room thing cause you’re saying “my room” like you’re the only occupant and it would be weird if she’s going into your room instead of her partner’s.

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Anonymous 1w

why didn't you say anything in the moment 💀 weird behavior from her, she shouldn't even be in ur room if her bf isn't there

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

I agree bro she’s just the type of person you can’t argue with because she always things she’s right no matter what

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Anonymous replying to -> amethyst_popping_bottles 1w

I share a room with her boyfriend and he was in the living room and she was in the bedroom with me and my gf. But she regularly stays when he’s not in the room. She rarely leaves until 9pm once she gets here at 6am

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Ok now that the context is sorted out…she’s way too comfortable invading your space. Spending 15 hours a day in your boyfriend’s dorm??? That’s insane, and that’s not mentioning the invasion of privacy going on with her staying in the bedroom when it’s clear you’re trying to spend time with your girlfriend in there. At minimum, I’d set the boundary that if you’re with your gf in the room you expect some space just like you try to give them/her.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

Ok I just saw this. It doesn’t matter if she doesn’t like being wrong it’s not her dorm room. I wouldn’t be surprised if the reason she spends 15+ hours in her boyfriend’s dorm is because her roommate doesn’t let her overstep boundaries like this. If she won’t listen and your roommate won’t handle it, then it’s time to get the RA involved and cut down how much time she spends there.

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