
and i have no issue with them bringing people over,i understand that sometimes the only time they can see their friends is after 11pm bc of work and other factors.that was not what i was talking about with her.but when i said that i didnt want him spending the night she said they would sleep in the other bedroom instead with their friends and that i have no say.i do,that is the whole point of the agreement we came to at the start of the year,asking me for permission if he can stay and sleep here
he doesnt pay to live here,doesnt contribute,has his own apartment off-campus.and yet in oct.alone he had slept overnight here on 6 separate occasions.and she wanted him here all weekend,so at least 2 more nights.most of the time its bc “he has work in the morning🥺🥺” you’re grown,if you know he has work dont keep him here til late and he can also say “i got work,im going home early” like bffr.if she wants time with him,hell go to his place for a change.he doesnt need to be here every single day😐