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How do I tell my roommate she smells. We are good friends but I’ve noticed that she does not take care of herself. Her room is super stuffy when you walk in and noticeably dirty. She eats in her room and leaves food around. Doesn’t deep clean at all.
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Anonymous 10w

You can smell it even when the door is closed and you walk by. So idk what to do.

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Anonymous 9w

She’s probably severely stressed and depressed. She likely also realizes it but can’t bring herself to do it. I would gently text her that you don’t know how to say this but you’re worried about her mental health given the state of her room/odor. Emphasize that it’s ok, and that you’ve been there before. You just wants to make sure that she’s ok. And if she needs help cleaning or anything, she can come to you.

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Anonymous 10w

I be like “what body wash do you use?” I need new recommendations to try?

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Anonymous 10w

What if she’s the all organic type. No harsh chemicals and doesn’t know how to properly use them.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

She’s not she’s the not cleaning type

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