
the place i work at literally doesn’t close until 8 and i don’t leave until 8:15/8:30 in mt p. i do not get home until 9 EARLIEST that’s not a crazy time for dinner, and i also grew up in a house where we eat at 5 and they’re in bed by 8. the importance of learning to live and compromise with other peoples schedules is huge and if u can’t then go spend 2k on a one bedroom🤧
ur not crazy but not everyone was raised how you were either. some people have different schedules too and can’t be in bed by 9 every night. this could be solved by just having a conversation with them and asking them to try and keep the noise down as much as they can. you could get ear plugs or something too, it’s not fair to expect everyone to accommodate your schedule.