
I am asian (from Guam), I understand that sometimes my food my be different than what she is used to but it’s still upsetting when all my roommate does is make me feel bad about it. I try to be considerate and only cook when she is not around and i leave the windows open just in case she is put off by the different smells. it just makes me feel bad abt it ig.
my really petty (white American) roommate complains and rants in the gc about the “strong smell of spices” in the air and that I make “really overly complex dishes” when I make food from global cultures (which I clean up after). Meanwhile she only ever gets fast food and makes pancakes that she doesn’t clean up after 😐😐