No one under the age of 25 knows how to communicate anymore, I gotta make a tik tok dance to get these bitches to understand

190

“I’m ready for my roommate to leave.” 9/10 they never communicated their issues. So the roommate has no clue there’s any issues.

54

so true but everyone is scared for some reason

38

True but most of the time when one party wants to communicate the other party refuses to

23

\(^-^) My roommate doesn’t know how to communicate but will tell her friends and bring them over to try and threaten me like im the bad guy. #LoveCommunications

20

it's hard when they're stubborn and when you bring something up, they get defensive about it and all of a sudden i'm the 'crazy one'. can't help the people who don't want to change.

18

It’s scary ass hell living with someone who already gives no shits about you, communication is an attack to them because they feel entitled to a space you share. One wrong move and you are no longer safe in your own home.

11

literally text her and she hasn’t talked to me for a week

11

Told my roommate I’d appreciate it if she wiped the microwave dish bc her food juice is always on it and now she slams doors from 2-6 am, throws coins around at 4 am, and leaves her lamps on overnight after I turn the main light off 🧚‍♀️

7

It’s also depends how they communicate. I used to have rm meetings with my old rms. My new rm got mad bc I scheduled a meeting with her and she didn’t like planned things that made her dread talking. She rather I tell her upfront when something’s wrong. That’s not rlly how I like to do things bc then I feel like I’m mothering ppl but I just deal w it

6

I’ve asked my roommate to change her behavior in one way or another like 3 times since August and she just keeps doing the same shit

4

we’ve tried but she throws tantrums, screams at us and then ghosts us after

3

I do but people get defensive or don’t care to fix it :(

2

I’ve tried. They ignore me every time/ make the problem worse

1

No genuinely I barely check this section cuz every post is just the exact same issue: I don’t like this super niche thing my roomie does. Instead of telling them like a FUCKING adult, I’m going to what? Be passive aggressive af and hope they notice 🥰💖💖🥰

1