Roommate Rants on Sidechat | I told and have been telling my roommate to talk to me and tell ME if anything I'm doing or not doing is bothering them. They had been telling me it's fine, and I still apologized for the mess cuz I felt bad that I was just so mentally exhausted

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Roommate Rants 1d

I told and have been telling my roommate to talk to me and tell ME if anything I'm doing or not doing is bothering them. They had been telling me it's fine, and I still apologized for the mess cuz I felt bad that I was just so mentally exhausted - (1)

Anonymous 1d

You’re an adult? Clean up your mess. Apologies mean way less than actions. If you were truly sorry, you’d clean up

Anonymous 1d

that I couldn't deal with it (it being 2 big boxes with stuff from when I went to visit home on MY chair). Alongside that, I also didn't want to get in the way of them if I were to start putting it away. Anyways, while they were talking, they were good, and they understood they were complaining about me and the mess to the RA, like, dude, if it were bothering you, TELL ME. I only found out cuz the ra pulled me aside - (2)

Anonymous 17h

avoidant people are genuinely some of the biggest pussies on earth, just say you’re bothered 😭 it cannot be that hard

Anonymous

#1 1d

it was a box of a few things I got from when I went home for a few days sitting on my chair. I didn't want to get in their way while figuring out where to put it. Mess probably wasn't the best word choice

Anonymous

#1 1d

it was more of the fact that I asked is this fine and they said yes only to turn around and tell the ra that they asked me to clean it up when they hadn't