
Time to go to the RA about this. This is a severe invasion of privacy and he needs to learn to shut off the computer sometimes. Also the gf is just as bad for not ending the call herself and for spying on you and telling your roommate about everything. Matter of fact tell the RA that you feel that your roommate is using his gf to spy on you. Iโd also say that if you suspect heโs doing this from now on youโre shutting his laptop/turning off his computer because this is ridiculous.