Anonymous OP 5w

Do what amethyst said. And say you wanted to stay out of it because you liked them both.

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Anonymous OP 5w

They will learn/grow from the experience, you’re helping them really

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Anonymous #5 5w

They are moving out this weekend you guys are a bad influence cause I’m really thinking about it now

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Anonymous OP 5w

Do it Friday - think of how much they have hurt other people like you and how this will really Help them know each other before moving in- if anything you are doing them a favor

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Anonymous OP 5w

Please come back to this thread with an update on Friday, don’t let us down. WE are counting on you OP

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Anonymous OP 5w

You need to tell them

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Anonymous #5 5w

It’s so hard because no matter how mean and rude they’ve been to me I still don’t truly want to be mean to them even if they deserve it

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Anonymous OP 5w

Okay this situation got genuinely more serious with what you just posted - you are clearly upset about this - you are not a bad person from what I’ve gathered - they are leaving which is fantastic but I would honestly just let them leave and as soon as they are out no way coming back in I would say something about the original post - on a separate note you should stand up for yourself and ask for a reimbursement with receipts or numbers before they leave PLEASE DO NOT LET THEM USE YOU AND YOUR $

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Anonymous OP 5w

Ok girl, take a step back and evaluate why you have chosen not to defend yourself. Like deadass. This is disrespectful to yourself. Who said you have an obligation to do any of this? This doesn’t make you a good person, it makes you their doormat.

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Anonymous #3 5w

Idk why I guess to make things easier idk why I usually don’t stand up for myself when it comes to them I rationalizing for them cause it’s not like we didn’t used to be friends but when i dropped the sorority they stopped treating me like a friend or even a person I don’t know if they realize they are as mean as they are or trick themselves into thinking I deserve it but to be honest I don’t know it’s depressing to be treated so terribly by people you used to respect

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Anonymous OP 5w

I don’t think you understand. They don’t know how mean they are because they don’t care. The sooner you realize that there are people who simply don’t care, the better you can protect yourself. Take a deep dive in your mind and talk to someone trusted or a professional, because a pattern of not standing up for yourself can lead to a miserable and punishing life.

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Anonymous #3 5w

Thank you it’s really relieving to say all this out load and hear people who actually care I’ve been walking on eggshells for months and I don’t talk about the stresses in my life and it really has been building I think I do need to stop helping people that don’t treat me with respect but I can’t hate someone even if they deserve it

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Anonymous OP 4w

She asked if I could help her move the rest of her stuff and I forwarded her the contact for a moving company and wished her well

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Anonymous #3 3w

It seems like ur always being the bigger person. Let yourself be “mean” this one time.

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