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My suitemates have people over every night without asking and they’re always so loud until at least 1 am. They pretend my other roommate and I don’t exist. No matter how much we ask them to be quiet or warn us when people are coming they don’t stop 🤐🫩
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Anonymous 2w

I’m in college so I have classes and multiple jobs one of which I have to get up early to go to which makes it even worse. I’m losing my mind

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Anonymous 2w

go to the ra and tell then whats going on. also try to document that u and ur other roommate have been trying to resolve this urselves.

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Anonymous 2w

Absolutely take this up with the ra or some equivalent. You HAVE to advocate for yourself. Take this from someone who has made this mistake already. Do NOT just sit and hope it changes, if you’ve made it clear that it bothers you and they won’t change their behavior, you owe it to yourself to find someone to make that decision for them. Trust me, you’ll be all the happier for it

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Anonymous 2w

My roommate would do the same thing when I was a freshman. And she’d let girls come into our suite and piss in the sink.😖😖😖

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Anonymous 2w

The way me and my friend/roommate been having the same problem this pass week I thought it was her who post this cuz I was bout to get on here and say the same shit…like and it’s such a issue because they keep our door unlocked 24/7 and have only 5-7 men just coming in and out our place at night everyday since we got back on campus and we’ve had pass harassment issues on campus where men were just coming into girls room so like damn I can’t tell if it’s one of they lil friends or some crazy

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

Omg eughhhhh 🤢

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

Like we’ve addressed it with them a couple days ago and the people started knocking that day before they came in but they not even doing no more like at first the issue was safety precautions but now it’s over the top like they be here all night it’s exhausting and we had got our first complaint last night because they’re so loud and then they immediately went back to being loud that same night I really do try having patience with ppl but it’s getting to a point…

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