
So then leave your cat outside the room for the night if it bothers you so much? You don’t own a communal space. If your roommate is actively using that space or can see into it while cooking it’s so rude to turn off all of the lights while they’re using it, what if they wanted to go eat in there?why do your needs trump their needs?
But like genuinely why do you think you can tell someone when they can and can’t use their own kitchen?? And again what if they wanted to eat in the living room. You could have turned off a couple of lights and not all of them, and spoken to your roommate asking if you can turn off all of them since they’re presumably right there and you just passively aggressively shut everything off instead of using your big boy voice