Roommate Rants on Sidechat | I have a roommate question. My roommate doesn’t like one of my friends (she’s never been over) and when we moved in my roommate said she doesn’t want my friend “in my space”. I texted to let her know that I’d have friends over (in my room) and she said NO

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Roommate Rants 19h

I have a roommate question. My roommate doesn’t like one of my friends (she’s never been over) and when we moved in my roommate said she doesn’t want my friend “in my space”. I texted to let her know that I’d have friends over (in my room) and she said NO

Anonymous 19h

i mean i don’t get along with one of my roommates friends and she simply didn’t bring her over or went to her place, it’s a simple boundary for a shared space that should be enjoyable for the both of you

Anonymous 16h

While she can’t dictate what you do in your own room, I understand that she doesn’t want someone she doesn’t like in her space. I’d honestly have a talk with her and set boundaries like if you don’t like one of her friends in the future then she can’t have them over or just come up w boundaries that work for both parties

Anonymous 10h

So what’s your question?

Anonymous

#1 19h

Yeah but we don’t share a room. We have a shared living room and kitchen and each have separate rooms. I was going to bring my friend over into my room, not into her space at all

Anonymous

OP 16h

She’ll still see it as you bringing her into her space/ shared space areas even if you just pass thru unfortunately