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Roommate Rants 1w
My gf met up w her new rmmate last yr to tell her that I’d be sleeping/comin ovr.Not to mention put in rmmate form.i only slept over once over 2 semesters cause rmmate misunderstood & said shes uncomfortable w me being there.r we aholes for not carin now?
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Anonymous 1w

In 3000 years this will be in textbooks as hieroglyphics

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Anonymous 1w

Holy Shakespeare....

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Anonymous 1w

genuinely cannot read this

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Anonymous 1w

are they in a shared room or a do they have private bedrooms? also tbf sometimes you think you're comfortable with something and find out you aren't. if she's in a shared room you would definitely be an asshole if you slept over (a lot of women feel unsafe with unknown men there while they're in vulnerable positions so do not do this) if they're in private rooms then who gives a fuck

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Anonymous 1w

Ngl you guys sound like asshole here

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Anonymous 1w

I was trying to shorten it chilll

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Fahhhh 🫩

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

It’s a shared room, yeah I understand how a person can find something they initially thought they were ok to actually be a discomfort. I haven’t been overnight except that one time ( first semester) it’s been the entire school year basically. Of us respecting her wishes sleeping in our friends rooms ( I go to a different school) so don’t have a room on gfs campus. Not to mention my gf is telling her two weeks in advance . so she can possibly stay with someone else for a night.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

a girl can still be uncomfortable with a man staying there regardless of the fact that she allowed it prior. and why are YOU saying she should find someone else to stay? that's her room she paid for 💀 buy a hotel or have your gf stay with you. yes you'd be assholes for not caring.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

I said possibly find someone else to stay with. It was just a suggestion . Pls notice the fact that I said my gf is the one communicating with her so her letting her know in advance means she’s the one suggesting and not me. I hope you don’t think I’m the one trying to convince the roommate.Just wanted advice on if we are in the wrong. I left out some detail on our situation like it’s an hr 30 away, I’m the one with the car so I would have to pick her up drive back twice,it’s only for valentines

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