Roommate Rants on Sidechat | Is it normal to not talk at all to your roommate with whom you share a room for a day sometimes? I’m fine with silence and just want some peace and quiet sometimes since she never leaves the dorm, and then I get “confronted” for “having a problem”

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Roommate Rants 1w

Is it normal to not talk at all to your roommate with whom you share a room for a day sometimes? I’m fine with silence and just want some peace and quiet sometimes since she never leaves the dorm, and then I get “confronted” for “having a problem”

Anonymous 1w

Dawg how are you a problem when you're just breathing..? Tbh it sounds like your roommate wants private time in the shared space but doesn't know/want to communicate that. Let them bring it up, don't let them "confront you"; have a conversation.

Anonymous 1w

I talk to my roommate maybe once a day and it’s small talk so

Anonymous

#1 1w

I just came back after being back home for a whole week, I sleep over at others places pretty frequently because of this attitude too, she has plenty of private time! She is always bitching and nagging at me and if I take advantage of a little peace and quiet, I expect to be reprimanded the next day :(

Anonymous

OP 1w

Lemme guess: either entitled sibling or only child? Sorry, jokes aside, she's the problem. Not you. Do your thing, and do your best to not let her get to you. That's the whole reason why she's doing it.

Anonymous

#1 1w

Literally. my roommate thinks everything is about her they just need to grow up and realize the world does revolve around them.

Anonymous

#1 1w

Right on the money! Thank you though, just waiting for the semester to be over 🙏

Anonymous

#2 1w

Yup! I feel like I’m jester to the grumpiest person on the planet.

Anonymous

OP 1w

You got this!!