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Roommate Rants 5w
whats the best way to approach ur roommate abt them being in the dorm all the time? Shes in here all the time all day everyday other than class and dosent even leave to get food and the lack of alone time has been driving me crazy :(
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Anonymous 5w

honestly ima be in my room all the time aint nb finna tell me they need “alone time” when i paid for ts! i will not ask my roommate to leave either if i want alone time i will leave and they can do the same!

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Anonymous 4w

Ok but how do you actually know if they are always in the dorm? I think my roommate always thinks im in the dorm but every time she comes in i just got home from not being in there the whole day

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Anonymous 5w

well it's her room too you can't tell her to leave but what you can do is ask for some alone time. i can't guarantee a yes but she might understand

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

but its my room too and she guilts me to leave and makes me feel like i cant be in my own room

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

okay but i paid for this too?? i already have to leave all the time to be alone but when they want to be alone at a time when im there which they have many opportunities already they guilt me into leaving so clearly that grace isnt being mutually extended 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

i would not leave…if they want alone time they can leave like you do bc again you pay for it. dont let anyone push you around!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

its just so hard when she does all the guilting shit and acts entitled to it even tho she dosent give the same energy back ill try to just stand my ground more

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

i have learned to not let anyone push you around bc you will always be seen as a doormat basically just next time she asks explain yourself and dont back down

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

then stand your ground? are you 7?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

R u dense as shit thats literally the point of the post

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

thank u that was a good motivator

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

that's my advice. stand your ground. if she makes u leave then tighten up... nate u fuckin slow like why do i need to spell shit out for u

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