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RAs are so useless I talked to mine about my roommates girlfriend sleeping in my room and she said okay i will inform your roommate about this… WHAT
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Anonymous 4w

We don’t get paid enough for this shit. Just fight them idgaf

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Anonymous 4w

they usually talk to the roommate about the issue first and if no change is made the RA will take it to the people in charge of the dorms and the roommate will either get a warning or go on probation

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Anonymous 4w

taking it out on your RA is just childish- what do you want them to do? Their job isn’t to get you a new room or pamper you, their job is literally to mediate until it gets to a point they can’t. She’s going to inform your roommate that they are violating boundaries of the dorm room and go from there. But what do you expect? RAS are students too. If you want a new room go to the head of housing. These are things you need to talk about during the move in process

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Anonymous 4w

Did you talk to ur roommate about it

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Anonymous 4w

No fr because my old roommate literally slept with a guy when i was in the room my ra said she would make a report and guess what she never did

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Anonymous 4w

Yall must just have the shit RAs mine actually do there jobs and are nice

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Anonymous 4w

Stggggg they ain’t shit right!!!

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Anonymous 4w

Isn’t that big of a issue I forced my dorm roommate girlfriend out of the room cause I was sleeping even though I wasn’t

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Anonymous 4w

RA’s are just a bunch of lapdogs and slaves to the housing office. Area coordinators don’t give a shit neither

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Yes I talked to him and his girl and she threw a tantrum about how her roommates aren’t nice to her so she needs to live in my dorm

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Honestly this whole talking to roommate thing makes it worse they will hate me after that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

they’re gonna hate you regardless if they get in trouble. talk to housing about getting a new room

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Sorry you’re in this situation man but what did you expect? Obviously he’s gonna know you talked to the RA when the RA issues a warning, who else would have reported him? Try to request a room change if you think he’s gonna pitch a fit and make your life hell

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Oh are they like being loud or you just don’t like her being in there

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

So that means that you’re just not gonna help people and do your job?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

It doesn’t matter the reason, it’s their home and a third person shouldn’t be living in a dorm that’s meant for two people…

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 4w

RAs also get so many free things so they do their damn job… Yes then go to higher ups. Sounds like you would not be a good one

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 4w

RAs do not get enough for all they do they don’t even get paid to deal with your petty asses

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4w

You quite literally get a free place to stay and help with tuition in some places as well. Y’all are so ungrateful. Don’t do the fucking job if you can’t do it right same as any other job you’re literally there to take care of people it doesn’t matter that you’re also a student 🥰

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 4w

Seems like all the shitty RA’s found my comment

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 4w

You say that but the RAs spend hours writing reports and residents don’t respect there boundaries and constant overwhelm them try having midterms or finals and having no time to study because you are writing reports my friend is an RA so don’t say nothing if you have never experienced it because I’ve seen the effect it has on my friend it’s quite literally the most time consuming job on campus as long as the RA actually does their job so sorry you have shity RAs only

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4w

Nah I’m not even a freshman anymore just sticking up for the fact that they still have a job to do, yes I feel for them and know some treat them horribly and ofc I do not agree w that!! BUT if someone can’t handle it w school then they shouldn’t be one, ik it sucks but it’s just true 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ you also just said don’t say nothing when you have experienced it and then quite literally said you aren’t an RA LOLLLL

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 4w

I’m not now I was at my old collage tho and they gave me a lot more benefits then this shit they give here it is not worth it at all to deal with that much extra work just for the room I would actually get paid

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4w

I bet you couldn’t even last a semester as an RA lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 4w

I was just asking bc it seems like the girl is going through stuff and that might be her only safe place to be

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

It’s not the roommates issue the girl should go talk to her RA to start the mediation and moving process

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4w

Sounds like she did already

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