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I live with 2 roommates that are friends and they always make me feel like the third wheel
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Anonymous 10h

Just bc you live with them does not mean they have to be your friend lol, you’re not entitled to their friendship just bc you share a living space

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9h

I get that but what’s confusing is when I’m alone with one of them they act like we’re close but when it’s both of them it’s completely different

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9h

Maybe they just want to hang out together without someone else? Idk but I wouldn’t take it too personally especially if you weren’t really friends before moving in together

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9h

But the only times it’s the three of us is when they invite me to come with them and when I try to say no they always say how much they want me to come

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6h

That might be them trying to build a better group dynamic. Especially since you haven’t known them as long, it’s natural that things might flow a bit easier between the two of them but to me, it sounds like they are attempting to get to know you and remedy that so you can all have fun as a group

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